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Dear Future Husband

Here's a few things you need to know.

Brittany Kersey

Sep 19, 2016

South Georgia State College

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Dear future husband,

Every girl has dreamt of her perfect wedding with the man of her dreams. We all wanted the knight in shining armor to sweep us off our feet and living happily ever after. Growing up, watching Disney movies was a weekly routine. The looks that the male characters (princes) gave to the female characters (princesses) when they weren’t looking is how I want a guy to look at me. I have heard several girls say “Thanks Disney for giving me unrealistic hopes of how guys should act.” I don’t think they have set unrealistic characteristics of how a guy should act. If a guy is in love, he will end up doing everything he can to be his girlfriend’s knight in shining armor. I have five tips to help you while we are dating.

1.)Spend time with me and MY FAMILY.

My family is very important to me and I want them to like you just as much as I do. It doesn’t mean that we have to spend be with them every time we are together, but I want you to feel comfortable around them because they will be your family too.

2.)Make me laugh!!

I absolutely love to laugh; laughing is my favorite. All you have to do in order to get me to laugh is tell me a cheesy joke, pun, or pick-up line. I know most people think they are lame, but I find them hilarious and sweet!

3.)Do NOT make me always plan the dates.

I don’t mind picking where to eat, where to go, and what to do. However, I find it really romantic if you have planned out the date. Even if you just plan to hang out at your house and watch movies, it comes off as thoughtful. Do not tell me what to do and how to act. Planning a date is completely different than being bossy. There is a difference between “Hey I planned our date and it’s a surprise” and “we are going out right now, so get dressed and be ready in 10.”

4.)Take me to things you like to do.

We are in a relationship, and in a relationship, there are two people. I want to see you do the things you love just as you want to see me do things I love. If you want to go fishing, I’ll go with you. If you want to spend time with your family, I will hang out with them too.

5.)Let me spoil you just as much as you spoil me.

I enjoy giving people things. It brings joy to my heart. It can be the little things like making you supper, bringing you lunch, or just hugging you or it can be gifts like a watch you wanted, new hunting/fishing gear, or taking you to eat at your favorite restaurant. Most girls believe the guy should do everything, but I believe there should be equality in the entire relationship.

Love,

Your future wife

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

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Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

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Remember that everything works out at the end

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