Settling down to me means finally being ready for something real. Some say I'm "too young" or that I still have a lot of growing up to do. But, in reality, I'd take a night staying in with someone over a night out.

Don't get me wrong, I love a night out dancing with my girls, but at the end of the day, there's always something missing. What's missing is having someone to go home to, someone to have by my side through tough decisions and someone to have a real connection with.

When settling down I'm in it for the long run, I don't want something temporary. I've been hurt enough to realize that the next time I open up to someone it won't just be for one night. I'm excited for the things that come along with being in a relationship! Excited for the endless movie nights, Friday night dates, and vacations. All in all, I'm just excited to share the things I love most with the love of my life. Not saying I'm desperate to find love, but, I have realized what I want most, something genuine.

Not going to lie, single life is pretty nice especially during your first year of college. But, things do get lonely and my classes are full of cute and happy couples. I haven't really gone through the "freshmen in college single stage yet," and honestly have no intentions in doing so. Some people think it's crazy to want to settle down so young, but I know what I want so why not do what I want?

When writing this article I did a lot of thinking about what I want for my future. I'll continue to put my career and college before looking for a relationship! But, I know God has a plan for me and when I'm ready he'll bring someone amazing into my life. Needless to say, I'm very excited for that day.