From Country To City | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Politics and Activism

From Country To City

City living isn't all it's cracked up to be.

10
From Country To City
Simple Things

I'm a country girl at heart, but I didn’t know this until I moved to the city, chasing after the life I thought I always wanted, full of glamor, style, and flashing lights. Moving to the city is the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and probably one of the hardest things I will ever do. Though it was hard, it will be the easiest thing I’ve ever had to say goodbye to. Sometimes it takes moving away from home to figure out who you really are, and where you really belong.

It’s been 3.5 years since I moved to the city, and there are still so many things that I don’t understand about the city life, like traffic for example. Where I come from, traffic doesn’t’ really exist. In fact, the only kind of traffic we really ever experience is during harvest season, when the tractors and semi-trucks own the road. I’m still baffled by the amount of time it takes to walk to your car, get onto the freeway and to your final destination. Freeway? What’s a freeway? That isn’t even a term used in the country, however, gravel road is most definitely a term used frequently.

The speed of the city is fast - and I mean fast. New York is famously known as “the city that never sleeps,” but really this slogan applies to pretty much any major city. There is no such thing as “lights out” or “hours of the night,” because they don’t exist. There is never a time when the roads are bare, nor is there a moment of silence. The sounds of airplanes, helicopters, police and fire sirens is 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 52 weeks a year. Time doesn’t slow down and neither do the people.

The city is a concrete jungle, literally. There are plenty of places to play and various events, festivals, restaurants and sports venues to attend. While there is plenty of things to do in the city, everything costs money -- being a poor college student makes finding cheap things to do really hard. Want to go to a vintage trunk show? You’ll have to pay to get in. How about a concert? That’ll cost too. At least for me, the city has dulled my imagination, adventurous spirit, and spontaneous lifestyle. There aren’t many places that you can just start up a bonfire, nor is there a place where you can really lay outside on a blanket and see all of the amazing stars in the night sky—there are too many lights for them to shine (talk about a Debbie downer).

This past weekend, I took a day road trip with some of my best friends. There's just something about getting into a car and out of the city’s chaos that is exhilarating. The feeling of excitement I once had about living in the city is the now same feeling I have when I leave it. I guess that's kind of an oxymoron, isn't it? As soon as the open road is in plain sight, my lungs let out the build of tension, stress, and anxiety the city has filled me with. Up in the trees, where the open land roams I can really, finally breathe. City scrapers are replaced with trees, pastures and lots of open grass and I finally feel a bit more at home. To simply put it, I am unfit for city life. I have a deep admiration for those who love the city and all that it has to offer, but frankly, it’s just not for me.

I must thank the city, however, for introducing me to a whole new world of life I never even knew existed. I've gone out of my comfort zone, learned new things and experienced more than I ever would have if I had stayed at home. Change is challenging. It takes hard work, patience and diligence to do the hard things in life. The city hasn't changed me, I wouldn't let it. But without it, I never would have embraced the simple, country girl that I am.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

197316
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

19128
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

461076
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

28420
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments