Being and having friends is probably one of the most complicated things in our human existence. It's always a delicate balance of what to say, and what not to say or what to do and what not to do. It's honestly so hard to keep up sometimes. I just always try to remember that sometimes, some friendships just aren't meant to work out. You have to always remember to have friends, you absolutely have to be a friend. Here is a short list of things to remember about being a good friend.
1. Don't forget to call them every now and then
I know, this is hard, when you're in college or working this can be almost impossible. I'm not saying all the time, but at least once or twice every two weeks is fine. You never know the kind of day they are having, it could just brighten it! I love getting calls from my best friends, it just makes my day sooooo much better.
2. DO NOT get overly offended by stupid stuff
Look, if I can't hang out one day, if I'm busy, it does not mean I hate you. No, it means I'm busy, and I trust my FRIEND would understand that. I've had a couple of friends who get upset with me if I don't have time to hang out, and it is so stressful. I promise I don't hate you, I just don't have a lot of free time. I'm a VERY busy person.
3. If you see something that reminds you of them, like a silly meme or a funny video, share it with them
That one is kinda lame, but still, people like to know they are thought of.
4. Own up to your mistakes
The simple fact is, you aren't perfect, and none of your friendships are perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, when you make one, you need to recognize when you are wrong, and own it. You may not even realize that something you did came off the wrong way. That being said:
5. If a friendship makes you hide something about yourself, end it
No friend is worth being fake for. You do not need to put on a show for a friend, it is not worth it. Use your set of morals to decide what is worth it, and what is not worth it. If a friend makes you not talk about a certain person or activity around them, they are not a good friend. Sorry about it.
6. Buy their lunch every once and awhile
When you can afford it
7. Allow your friend to buy you lunch every once and awhile
Yeah. I'm talking to you.
8. DO NOT FREAKING LIE
IF YOU LIE YOU ARE A BAD FRIEND AND A BAD PERSON. SORRY. I'm done.
9. Just be honest about your emotions
True friends will never judge you for how you feel about something. If they say something or do something offensive to you, don't bottle it up. SAY SOMETHING they will understand, and if they don't. Well, bye.
