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To My Friend Who Is Constantly Searching For Love

Learn to love yourself and the right person will come to you.

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To My Friend Who Is Constantly Searching For Love
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You may not see it yourself, but you're one of the most genuine people I have ever encountered in my lifetime.

You are selfless, thoughtful, vibrant, and caring. It's rare to find a person like you these days.

Although I haven't known you a great deal of time, you always remind me how beautiful I am on the inside and the outside. You always point out not only mine but others positive qualities as well. You always give me advice on various things, whether I ask for it or not. Everyone needs a friend like you in their life.

Now, I am going to give you a piece of advice:

Stop searching high and low for love.

Like I mentioned before, you are one of the most genuine and beautiful people I have met. I know it literally kills you inside to be single, but I have seen you go through too many heartbreaks and seeing that, kills me. I tell you time and time again how so-and-so doesn't deserve you and that you're better than him. It's a seemingly endless go around of you meeting a guy, whether it be in person, on Tinder, or a mutual friend, getting your heartbroken after things don't work out, me trying to console you the best that I can, then you telling me about a new guy you met.

Instead of focusing on finding your soul mate right this second, go find yourself. You're young, go out and enjoy what you have as a single woman. Find what makes you happy, find what you're passionate about, find what makes you, YOU.

When you find yourself and learn to love yourself, someone one else will come along who will love you more than any previous boy has before.

I want you to find love just as much as you want it, but you need to learn to love yourself before anyone else can.

Now go be single and content. Enjoy your 20's. Do crazy things with your friends. Go on adventures. Go see the world. But most importantly, love yourself.

Xoxo

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