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To My No Longer Forever Friends

I wish that we didn’t outgrow another but I know that it is for the best.

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To My No Longer Forever Friends
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There have been plenty of people that have come into my life where I imagined them never leaving my side. I saw them in my wedding standing by my side through the ceremony, and now I barely speak to them, and just say hi when I see them in passing. I thought that you were going to be my forever friend, and I’m not quite sure how to go about life sometimes.

You may no longer be my friend, but I will forever be there if you need me

I think about you often, and how you are doing. I wonder how we could become such fast friends who knew everything about each other to not even knowing who you live with. I’m sorry for the part I probably played in us getting busy and living separate lives. I wish that we didn’t outgrow another but I know that it is for the best.

Some of the people I thought would never leave my side left due to them not being real friends, know your worth either way

Sometimes you could’ve been a person that I needed to teach me a lesson so that I could further myself, and vice versa. Thank you for whatever lesson you personally taught me. I want you to know that I think about you often and wonder how you’re doing. I wonder how your family is if you’re still doing okay with that one situation with that one boy etc… I want you to know that even though we may never speak I’m still just a call away.

There was a point in our lives when I knew every little secret of yours, and I knew your past. So if you ever need anything at all just give me a call. I hope you’re doing well and that life has treated you well over the past years!

Thank you for all that you helped me through and all you’ve done in the past. I couldn’t be who I was without you. I’m sorry for the part I played but I know that it was for the best. I hope you’re doing well and living the life I knew you could. Thank you.

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