Is it just me, or are we ignoring those around us too much? We’re so concerned with our own lives that we don’t even take a second to look at others. We were taught at a young age that we should pay attention to those around us, because they have feelings too. Remember being told to share? Share your toy, share your clothes and share your crayons. Share, because that’s what friends do. Did we forget? Or did we just get too wrapped up in our own lives to notice that there are so many other people out there who could use the help.
I understand that today’s society expects all of us to hold it together on the outside. That showing emotion makes us “weak.” But I think it dangerous when we are too afraid to ask for help. Too afraid of being judged. Too afraid of the rumors that will start once someone figures out you’re in pain. Too much fear and emotion going around that we often forget that there are people who are willing to listen. Listen when we are having a bad day. When we don’t want to get out of bed and go to class. When we just need a break from everything. The demands of life. The demands that go with being a student, friend, brother, sister, mom, dad.
I don’t blame you for being too afraid to ask for help. I blame society. I blame the world of gossip that is high school, college and the work place. I blame the fact that people are only concerned about your life when it pops up on their own path. The path that they could never get off to help you. The path that only gets interrupted when it is convenient for them.
We all need more people who are willing to get off their path and jump onto yours when necessary. For as long as you need, no questions asked.
Taking the path alone is great, until it no longer is. Until there is no one within a miles radius. When you need help, and it seems like no one is there.
But, there is always someone out there who is willing to help. Even if it doesn't seem like it, there is. I promise.
Instead of pushing people off your path when they try to tag along, please just let them join. Even if you both have to walk in silence for a while, because it is better than being alone. It is better than letting your thoughts and actions take over for the worse.
Take advantage of those people who are willing to help, even when it’s inconvenient for you, because chances are it is for them too. But, that’s what friends are for. They are there for you during the good times and bad.
***This one's for anyone and everyone who has or is currently battling a suicidal issue***
