Everyone experiences life differently. For some, they may not know what a heartbreak truly feels like until they are 32. For others, they may have experienced death, heartbreaks, laughs, success, and so much more by the time they hit age 17.
This is for the people who have seen & been through way more than most people their age. Not saying that it is a bad thing because I truly think experiences make a person much wiser and stronger, however, it does suck having to go through those experiences at such a young age.
By the time I was 17, I felt as if I had been through it all. Not only had I experienced heartbreak, but I also had dealt with friends changing & leaving, people I cared about struggling with major addiction problems, playing a traveling sport, making straight A's, and walking away from an abusive situation.
I knew what it was like to struggle. I knew what it was like to cry, laugh, succeed, fail, and hit my knees at night begging God for help and answers.
I had been hurt. I had been loved. I had been scared. I had been worried. I had been happy. I always thought it was so unfair that I had to go through so much, while my friends did not have to.
I am so thankful for all that I have experienced. The good, the bad, and the ugly. Love the highs and be thankful for the lows.
To those who have been through so much, it's okay. It makes you so unique and strong. It may feel unfair right now, but looking back, you'll be so thankful for all that you've been through. Not many people get to experience life like you may have, and that is okay. I am not sure what you may have endured, but amongst it all, remember to smile. Each day is a gift, and no matter what you've been through or are going through, it gets better. Just know, whatever you are dealing with now, it won't last forever. So enjoy the good times, for they will come and go, and buckle up for the hard times, for they will also come and go.
Be thankful for what you've been through. After all, it made you who you are. And you're truly wonderful.