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To My First Love

Thank you for the good, the bad, and the ugly.

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To My First Love
Sandra Speer

It's crazy to think about how much time has passed since we were together. We are in completely different places than we ever pictured during our relationship. However, that's a good thing. I'm glad we both found the path we're supposed to be on, even if they are separate.

Thank you for being my best friend throughout the duration of our time together. I can't think of a person who listened to my high school gossip more than you did. You always had open ears and open arms when I needed them the most, it meant the world to me. I knew you were always a call away if you weren't already two feet away from me.

Thank you for the little things. A surprise smoothie and snack always made my day, and I appreciate that you came to my sporting events and concerts. I know you hated taking pictures and getting dressed up for dances, but you did it because it made me happy. Most of all thank you for making every day together an adventure. Big or little they were all special.

We had so many adventures that I am thankful for. From family vacations to late night drives singing our favorite songs, you created some of my favorite memories. The best part was you didn't know you were making such a big impression, you were just trying to make me smile. I wish I had appreciated the small moments when they were occurring, but know that I treasure them now.

However, our relationship was like a fire, one that burned out. Behind all of the wonderful times were fights, arguments, and disagreements. We were young, stubborn, and naive about many choices were making. Those three things led us down a path of disaster and led to our breakup. No one was lying when they said the first heartbreak is the worst, but looking back I am grateful for it.

Our breakup was messy and full of hurtful things towards each other. However, our relationship and more so our breakup taught me how to be a better lover and leaver. I gave love a new perspective and found the strength to leave people when they began to hinder me. I am thankful for every moment with you, beginning to end. You are apart of who I am today, and who I will be for the rest of my life. Know that I am always here for you, no matter the time or distance. I wish you nothing but the best, take care, Dear.

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