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To My First 'College Friends' That Probably Kept Me From Dropping Out

If I hadn't met you, I probably would have went home the day after I arrived.

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To My First 'College Friends' That Probably Kept Me From Dropping Out
Emmie Pombo

College is the time to start fresh; to realize what you want to do in life and then go do it.

College is meant to prep you for the real world, possibly far away from home and everything you know. College is a strange and scary time. But, with friends (new or old), the experience can be amazing.

So, to my first college friends,

Before starting at our school, I didn’t know what to expect… How I would do living on my own, taking care of everything by myself. I questioned when (if at all) I would make friends – I stressed about it for so long.

And then I met you guys.

I think we all realized that we were just as scared as everyone else. Just about everyone coming in don't know anyone, and that, in a way, made it easier to bond.

Thank you for being willing to just jump right into adventures and life experiences.

It’s hard enough for me to break out of my shell, let alone break out of my shell with complete strangers. But, college is about finding who you really are (even if it means gossip sessions until 2 AM).

Thank you for accepting me without even knowing my story.

For so long I wanted to forget my identity back home and start a new life focused on who I am instead of what I'm leaving behind. I wasn’t sure how well that would happen, but thanks to you all, I have never been more comfortable being myself.

Thank you for opening up to me.

I would be so easy to just not let me in… To not trust me with your problems because I am, in fact, still a stranger. But, you felt (and still feel) comfortable enough with me to share who you really are, too – and that means more than you know.

Thank you for going on spur of the moment adventures with me and being down to do random things at any time during the day.

Those milkshake and Target runs will never be forgotten – along with the heart-to-hearts that went with them.

Thank you for making my move to a new place smooth.

I am convinced that if I hadn’t had found you all, I would have gone home the day after I got here. I love you all and thank you for an amazing start to the year – here’s to a memorable and unforgettable four years.

Love,

Your first college friend

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