Leaving high school and heading to one of the most amazing universities in North Carolina was something I was more than ready for last semester.

My high school experience was like most others—I went to class, dreaded tests, and was always ready for lunch—but I had something that many people didn’t, and that was a small, amazing group of friends.

There were six people who were in my “friend group.” Compared to other people who were friends with absolutely everybody, my group seemed relatively small. But ,I was happy with that.

Fast forward through high school to college move-in day. Having to leave those six people behind and head into a whole new atmosphere with thousands of new people was exciting, but I was also so anxious. I’m not very good at going out of my way to make friends, and I would definitely prefer for them to come up to me to start a conversation.

However, starting my first semester, I was determined to get out of my comfort zone and start making friends on my own.

I joined the Elon Equestrian Club that semester because equestrian riding was my main sport in high school, and I wanted to continue to pursue this passion. Unfortunately, I found that I enjoyed spending with the girls on the team more than I enjoyed actually riding the horses. So, I decided that it would be best for me to try and find something else to get involved in.

Elon News Network (ENN) was a long shot. It is every Communication major's dream. It is also extremely intimidating as a first-year student to come in and see all these amazing writers producing great stories and know that you are nowhere near that level.

After having several mental breakdowns filled with many tears and infinite phone calls to Mom (this is considered a weekly routine for many college students), I received an email from my English professor that stated: “I know many of you love to write and have causes/issues that you’re involved in or specifics kinds of writing that you enjoy doing. Please contact her if you’re interested.”

Madison Foster, Editor in Chief for Odyssey, has been recruiting writers for the online platform, Odyssey. I knew this was a sign, and I immediately jumped at the chance to be a part of the Odyssey community.

College has been an entirely new experience for me as I have tried to find "my place” in this outstanding community. Many tears, many phone calls, and a lot of doubts have led me to find my place, and I couldn't be happier with my opportunity at The Odyssey.

Finding "your place" takes time in college, whether it takes weeks, months, or even a year. There are so many opportunities on every college campus, so don't be afraid to reach out and find something you're interested in.

No matter how long it takes, it will happen for you, and you will find your place.