When it comes to Christmas, there is a lot of push to find the "perfect" gift for each person. Is it actually that important? And is it even possible? I've been asking myself that this year considering that I have a pretty bad obsession with trying to find that "perfect" gift. I have been known to start looking for gifts in October. However, the more hectic the years have been getting has meant that we have less time to spend shopping and looking for presents. I have been conflicted this year because I have been unable to find a "perfect" present for anyone, which is something that I am usually able to do and something that I search for. This has made me question if it is possible to find that perfect gift. If not, then what is the point? Of course, the point is that you love the person and you want to express that by giving something to them with the Christmas tradition. However, it is not always that "perfect" gift that seems to spring into your mind or that is the perfect price, size, or that you don't have to search for.

There is always pressure to put a label of the "perfect gift" specifically on tangible items when sometimes the only perfect gift is you. This Christmas I am looking forward to seeing my family and friends. I know that this year has been rough for many and it has meant that for some we can only do gatherings, not presents. For some that may cause anxiety, but I think it carries the spirit of Christmas just as intensely. So whether you are gifting or just gathering, remember that it's the thought that counts. And also remember that it's okay if you never find that "perfect" gift, because sometimes it's you.