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Oct 30, 2016

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Coming to college was one of the best things for me that has ever happened. At home I have always try to be selfless and kind and giving without out a word of regret. Though this made me very happy and made me grow as a person it also made me grow standing still. I wasn't going anywhere being the way I was and I wasn't learning anything about myself. All I knew about myself was the things I would say when asked on a "Getting to know you" form I was always handed at the beginning of each class of high school. I always wrote down the same hobbies of reading and writing, and the fact that I had anxiety, and that I was shy so please for the love of mercy have pity on me and don't make me speak out loud in class.

Overtime I never really noticed anything wrong with the way I was living and the fact that my anxiety kept me from doing so many things. It was like I was "safe" and planted in my routines and I didn't wish to stray from them. Keeping my nose in a book instead of going out with my friends kept me from experiencing a lot of things too. I had a few good friends in high school and I still keep in touch with them even though we do not go to the same college.

Coming to UNC Asheville I felt like I was searching for something and it wasn't till a few weeks ago that I figured out that the thing I was searching for was me. I've noticed a change in myself and I can say that it is a good change. I am not shy anymore and I actually enjoy talking to people and being the first one to spark up a conversation. I don't mind sharing my thoughts in class or going during office hours to get help from my professors. I find myself engaging in activities that I normally wouldn't have before. I also don't sit in my room all day and read and watch TV. I only read before I go to sleep so I have more time to do homework or go out with my friends. I have come to the point of my anxiety where it does not control me anymore and it barely even bothers me.

I'm starting to find myself and even though I don't know exactly who I am yet I know I'm going to like her.

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We don't buy into these... just like how we don't buy our friends.

8. "The whole philanthropy thing isn't real, right?"

7. "I don't need to buy my friends."

6. "Oh, so I'll bet you love to drink."

5. "Can you tell me some of your secrets?"

4. "What do you do at your meetings?"

3. "Do you guys haze really badly?"

2. "Is it just like in the movies?"

1. "Sororities are so basic."

There are plenty of obstacles that come when taking care of kids, but it's a very rewarding experience.

1. You get excited when the parents purchase season passes to the pool.

2. You've become friends with the stay-at-home moms in town.

3. You get a chance to eat "kid foods" again.

4. You've traded in your cute purse for a large tote bag.

5. You have at least one car seat in your backseat.

6. Their nap time is your happy time.

7. Lunch time can be a disaster.

8. You have to play the same board games repeatedly.

9. You catch yourself using the same lines your parents once told you.

10. Your "mom-mode" kicks in at times.

11. Your heart melts a little when they do something cute.

You'll never find any souvenirs with your name on it

1. You know you are up next when the teacher pauses while taking attendance

2. When “I’m going to do my very best to make sure I know all your names” is said, it may or may be an empty promise

3. “Wow! That sounds so cool! Where is your family from?”

4. You dread when people ask you to repeat your name over and over because it “sounds so cool when you say it”

5. There’s a 50/50 chance that your name will come back either correct or incorrect at Starbucks

6. People try to find shorter, easier nicknames for you instead of calling you by your actual name

7. When someone famous or fictional character shares your name, you get so happy

8. “What’s your name?” “It’s [name]” “I’m sorry, what was it again?”

9. You’ve pretty much seen every misspelling and heard every mispronunciation of your name throughout your life

10. When you find another person with an “ethnic” sounding name, you both get excited

11. Despite the struggles, your name is pretty unique… just like you

Can I be excused for the rest of my life?

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1. “Oh, so you/your family are immigrants!”

2. “Is Puerto Rico near Mexico?”

3. “Do you speak Puerto Rican?”

4. “You look too light/dark to be Puerto Rican.”

5. “Do I need my passport to go to Puerto Rico?”

6. “Geez, you are obsessed with your flag. We get it, you’re Puerto Rican.”

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9. “Oh my god, Puerto Ricans are so spicy.”

10. “So did you eat a lot of tacos?”

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