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I'm Okay With Being Me

"I have taken myself apart, picked out flaw after flaw and have fallen in love with every single one of them."

Katelyn Bowles

Jan 09, 2017

Jacksonville, FL

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Like most teenage girls, I've often found myself scrolling through social media, comparing myself to just about every other teenage girl in the world. Having thoughts along the lines of "I wish I was as thin as her" or smart, or tall, or blonde, or beautiful, and literally something someone else has that I do not. I also found myself not feeling good enough, not worthy of love.

After putting some serious time and effort into self-love, I have become not only content but prideful in the young woman I am. I have taken myself apart, picked out flaw after flaw and have fallen in love with every single one of them. I can't even express how much I want this for every young girl in the world struggling with loving herself. So, after picking out flaw by flaw I have decided that:

I'm Okay...

I'm okay with not being the type of girl who can cause a traffic jam. I'm okay with not being the "it" girl. I'm okay with being ordinary. I'm okay with not being anything special. I'm okay with being minuscule. I'm okay with not being the girl every girl wants to be and every guy wants to be with. I'm okay with the fact that my eyes are a little far apart. I'm okay with my one crooked little tooth. I'm okay with the fact that I can be annoying as FREAK. I'm okay with not being 5'10 and a natural blonde. I'm okay with being totally unoriginal. I'm okay with not having 4.0 GPA. I'm okay with the fact that there is more sugar in my coffee than actual coffee. I'm okay with not being a size zero. I'm okay with the fact that I could probably eat more chicken wings than any guy I know. I'm okay with not always being ladylike and sometimes I swear like a sailor. I'm okay with the fact that I don't drive a super fancy, expensive car. I'm okay with the fact that I am a god awful singer and dancer. Because I'm going to do it anyway, I'm okay with wearing glasses and being called "four eyes." I'm okay with being the girl who would rather stay home and read Harry Potter than go out to the club and get crunk. I'm okay with the fact that I say stupid things like "crunk." I'm okay with the fact that my articles barely get 100 views every time they get published. (JK, y'all need to step it up) (seriously) I'm okay with being overly emotional and sensitive. I'm okay with my choice of being a future educator even though I'm going to be making $59,827 per year. I'm okay with being young and naive. I'm okay with not knowing exactly what in the hell I am doing most of the time. I'm okay with all of the bad decisions I have made because they taught me a lesson each time. I'm okay with all seven billion of my freckles. I'm okay with being nostalgic. I'm okay with the fact that my standards are unrealistically high. I'm okay with the fact that I've seen the notebook at least 17 times and still cry at the end. I'm okay with crossing oceans for people who wouldn't jump puddles for me. I'm okay with being so forgiving and giving people second chances even though they might not deserve it. I'm okay with the fact that kids my age call me "lame" because I'd rather listen to Elvis than whatever is on the radio. I'm okay with the fact that this article has pretty much no correlation whatsoever.

The moral of the story is, I'm okay. If no one else in the world likes me, I do. And that is more than enough for me.

So, to the young girl who is having trouble loving herself, if you're reading this, I hope this article found you well. I hope you can learn to love the parts of yourself that everyone else might not. I hope you can relate to at least something I wrote here, and I hope you realize that you are not alone. I hope that you realize that you are beautiful, you are enough, and you are worth loving, especially by yourself.

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1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

2. I will look decent for class.

3. I will go to the gym more.

4. I will go to the library and study more.

5. I will meet new people.

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2. Disappointed you let it get this bad

3. Distracted: When a 10-Minute Break Becomes an Hour

4. When the Yearning for Sleep Sneaks Up

5. In the words of Lorelai Gilmore "Coffee, Coffee, Coffee"

Oh, so done.

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

1. When it's December 1 and you have seven things due, three exams, and haven't slept in three days.

2. So you stress.

3. And cry.

4. Then call your mom to cry some more.

5. After the pep talk, you feel determined to get everything done.

6. But, now you're tired.

7. And really hungry.

8. Suddenly, it's 2 a.m. and you have only written three sentences and your paper is due in the morning.

9. You've made it to Friday... somehow.

10. Then Sunday hits and you find yourself back at the Lib.

11. So you cry some more.

12. But, you fight through the tears to get everything done because you're determined.

13. In the end, you feel on top of the world because you made it through the last week of class alive.

14. But, now it's finals week so good luck.

The ultimate list and gif guide to a college student's brain during finals.

What does the world outside the library look like?

Can I read this entire book tonight?

I should have gone to class more often.

Did the professor even teach this?

What is the lowest grade I can get on this exam and still pass the class?

Should I just drop out of school now?

Finals are ruining Christmas.

Just wrote three sentences so time for a break.

Need. More. Coffee.

What is sleep?

I'm too stupid for college.

Brain hurts.

Time for a Facebook Break.

I think I'm dying.

When will I ever need this information in the real world?

I can't read any of my notes.

I need my mom.

When was the last time I showered?

I need study snacks.

The struggle is so real right now.

"I want to thank Google, Wikipedia, and whoever else invented copy and paste. Thank you."

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2. We have a test today? Why didn't anyone tell me? Did I know this?!

3. Can I quit school yet? It's only October, and I need a vacation.

4. The struggle is so real.

5. I'm so broke. SOS.

6. Stressed? Eat everything you own in your pantry and stuff your face with all your feelings.

7. "Did we have anything due in class today? Homework? Quiz? Test?" "Not that I know of..."

8. I need food. Where is the closest place to get food? I need it stat.

9. This is the longest day of my life. I need a drink, or two, or three.

10. Sleep? What is sleep? What a foreign concept.

11. When someone suggests going and studying in the library, let alone studying in general.

12. When the cafeteria or student center is packed and you can't find a seat anywhere so you literally have to sit in an abandoned corner.

13. When you see someone you used to hook up with. They see you, and approach you; so you have to pretend like everything is normal.

14. When you get your exam and realize you didn't study as much as you should have.

15. When you crush it on an exam or paper that you totally bullshitted.

16. I need a grande, extra strong coffee to get me through today.

17. When the professor announces you have a project due the following week with no instruction on what it's on and how to do it.

18. Is it Friday yet? Where's the weekend when you need it most?

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20. Did I remember my book? Damn, I forgot the book, and of course I need it for that quiz in class.

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24. Why is there never any parking? I pay thousands of dollars a year for one parking spot to be open.

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26. When the professor asks if there are any more questions at the end of class and someone raises their hand.

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