Have you ever felt that life continuously fights against you at every turn? You put all your efforts into something where you FEEL that it would go your way but, surprise, it doesn't? I can safely say that 2016 was a year that few were expecting. With this age of technology, it's possible to engage more with the global community and communicate with family across the globe whenever needed. Unfortunately, as a 22-year-old, this only makes me feel more insignificant in this big world of ours.
My hobbies generally revolve around reading and writing, mainly because they have the benefit of letting me live lives that are not my own. Friends and family have a way of interfering sometimes with the notions of "You need to socialize more" or "Maybe a boyfriend will help with your antisocial behavior." Social media isn't much of a haven either, as opinions tend to fly much faster as people believe they have the right to say them since it's in a virtual world. This year was even harder as the US entered a monumental election cycle, with an "interesting" victor coming out on top. For the loudest, most rash individuals, it was a sign to make their country "great again"! For many others, it may be the beginning of losing their home as they know it. Security and individuality will be challenged through the next four years more than ever, so please stay safe and find a safe haven until it's fine to come out.
Many idols were also taken away from us. From great musical legends such as Prince and David Bowie to great life figures such as Muhammad Ali and Alan Rickman. They provided individuality in their unique ways that will continue to inspire future generations. It would be a dishonor to limit others who wish to do the same.
The Syrian refugee crisis. The Ukraine crisis. The effects of El Nino. Standing Rock protests against the Dakota Access Pipeline. Black Lives Matter. Equality. There are many humanitarian disasters happening around the world, and it seems that they only increase with time. Often, it comes down to how we react to each situation and how much of our humanity we wish to use to engage with our community. Unfortunately, the media and family can sway our perspectives and only discuss one part of a very complex issue. This year shows what can be the outcome of only spreading fear and hate to many individuals.
What I consider as a silver lining is how much connection we were able to achieve in 2016. What made our elders believe they were "great" compared to this generation is their ability to be ignorant. It was easy to hide issues during their "prime" time. We no longer have that privilege. We are stronger now, more united, and much more educated. We must use these lessons to our advantage to correct the many errors and horrible actions of the past in order to have a brighter future tomorrow. "We must be the change we wish to see in the world." (Gandhi)