Why It's Okay To Feel Everything You're Feeling | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

Why It's Okay To Feel Everything You're Feeling

Sometimes we get in the feels.

95
Why It's Okay To Feel Everything You're Feeling

I write this to you, to the universe, to the people around me, to the strangers I pass by on the sidewalk, and to the people closest to me. Feelings are important.

Each and every person's feelings deserve to be respected, to be treated fairly, to be accounted for, and to be cherished.

You and I are humans, and humans feel. Feelings are a natural part of life, a part of our body, and a part of who we are. Why is there such a stigma in society to put up a wall, telling us that we shouldn't feel? That we shouldn't express our emotions? That we shouldn't open up, but take shelter of what we are feeling inside? I have often seen the trend time and time again that if we cry, we're too weak and dramatic, so we should bottle up and hide our true selves.

You're allowed to feel. I'm allowed to feel. She's allowed to feel, he's allowed to feel, everyone is allowed to feel.

Feelings are a beautiful thing composed of raw emotion, showing that one cares about something or someone. That one is alive and has a heart inside. People can tell you that you worry too much, and that you're stressing over nothing.

Truth is, they're wrong. There is never a limit on how much you're allowed to feel, and there is never a set rule of how much you're allowed to feel. Who says you can't feel a certain way towards something? Feelings aren't something to be ashamed of.

The way we feel is what it is. Just like a chair is a chair, and a table is a table; feelings are what they are. They are composed and completely dependent upon your own individual life experiences, your childhood, your teen years, and your adult years. Feelings are different for each and every person on this earth, so there isn't a guideline that you have to follow.

Your feelings are you. They're your past, present, and future. Your feelings are your childhood, your dreams and aspirations, your goals and accomplishments. Don't apologize for how you feel; your feelings are allowed to be noticed, and allowed to be set free.

Life is full of tough times, but it it is also full of the happiest of times. Sometimes the tough times may get to us, and we may feel like the first solution to our problems is to either block out the situation or run away from it. However, bottling the situation up inside makes it worse, and only leads to an emotional outburst in the long run. Take the time to account for yourself, and it will save you in the future.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

190906
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

15260
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

458127
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26765
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments