Dear Family,

As a teenager: Being the oldest is hard. With it comes a lot of responsibility, attention and expectations. Parents always in my business and I'm not comfortable enough to tell you everything about my life, unless you ask. Siblings always in my personal space, "leave me alone" and "get out of my room" are the constant words that I yell daily. I'm not sure if it is the attitude or the teenage puberty in me speaking, maybe both. Thoughts of wanting to leave and going to college to be free, are constant thoughts of mine.

As a college student: Being the oldest is hard, but it is a blessing. The responsibility, expectations, and attention have molded me into a mature and independent adult. I tell you, mom and dad, everything because you are the closest people to me and you understand. I grew older and so did you, my siblings, we laugh and we enjoy each others presence. I'm only two hours away right now, but I can't help but to wish that I cherished those times at home more. Next year I will be graduating and then we will be even further apart. I know that the distance wont break our bond or love, but I am still a little scared to be so far away from you. In a sense I am thankful for those teenage years because I know what and how to treasure our bond now. I love you guys.

Sincerely,

Your daughter and sister.