Falling In Love With My Best Friend Is The Best Thing That Happened To Me | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Swoon

Falling In Love With My Best Friend Is The Best Thing That Happened To Me

Four years and four months later, we're engaged.

193
Falling In Love With My Best Friend Is The Best Thing That Happened To Me
Paiton Lami

This may seem super cheesy, but it is one-hundred percent true. I fell in love with my best friend and it could not have ended better.

I meet Austin when I was a sophomore in high school, but I was dating someone else. He was this sleepy kid in my Pre-AP Chemistry and Pre-AP U.S. History classes that honestly seemed like he had no idea that was happening at any point in time. We were on the block schedule so each class was one and half hours long and Austin was a constant in half of my day every day.

He quickly became someone I confided in, about all the problems I was having with my boyfriend at the time.

We had inside jokes - we were constantly laughing. One of mine and Austin's friends, Tom, even joked about Austin and I acting more like a couple than I did with my boyfriend. That being said, let me make it clear that I did not ever cheat. That's not the kind of person I am. Nor the person I ever want to be.

I do admit, that I felt closer to Austin than anyone else at that point. We had lunch together, we began texting all the time. He was my best friend. I wanted to tell him everything. He was the first person I ran too when anything happened - in show choir, in classes, in my relationship, in stupid fights with my siblings.

We fell in love. Hard. I went through a breakup, but I wasn't as upset as I should have been. Because Austin was right there for me when I needed him. He helped me get over the break up without pushing his feelings on me.

Four years and four months later, we're engaged and happily together.

Being best friends first really helped out transition into significant others become seamless. I already told him everything about myself and vice versa. I still want to go to him with everything that's ever happened to me.

What works for us is the complete honesty we give with each other because best friends are always honest with each other and that didn't cease to happen when we began dating.

I wouldn't wish for us getting together to change ever. We have a beautiful romance that I'm hoping to last a lifetime.

Report this Content
Entertainment

15 Times Michael Scott's Life Was Worse Than Your Life

Because have you ever had to endure grilling your foot on a George Foreman?

325
Michael Scott
NBC

Most of the time, the world's (self-proclaimed) greatest boss is just that, the greatest. I mean, come on, he's Michael Freakin' Scott after all! But every once in a while, his life hits a bit of a speed bump. (or he actually hits Meredith...) So if you personally are struggling through a hard time, you know what they say: misery loves company! Here are 15 times Michael Scott's life was worse than your life:

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

12 Midnight NYE: Fun Ideas!

This isn't just for the single Pringles out there either, folks

15247
Friends celebrating the New Years!
StableDiffusion

When the clock strikes twelve midnight on New Year's Eve, do you ever find yourself lost regarding what to do during that big moment? It's a very important moment. It is the first moment of the New Year, doesn't it seem like you should be doing something grand, something meaningful, something spontaneous? Sure, many decide to spend the moment on the lips of another, but what good is that? Take a look at these other suggestions on how to ring in the New Year that are much more spectacular and exciting than a simple little kiss.

Keep Reading...Show less
piano
Digital Trends

I am very serious about the Christmas season. It's one of my favorite things, and I love it all from gift-giving to baking to the decorations, but I especially love Christmas music. Here are 11 songs you should consider adding to your Christmas playlists.

Keep Reading...Show less
campus
CampusExplorer

New year, new semester, not the same old thing. This semester will be a semester to redeem all the mistakes made in the previous five months.

1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

Let's face it, last semester you woke up with enough time to brush your teeth and get to class and even then you were about 10 minutes late and rollin' in with some pretty unfortunate bed head. This semester we will set our alarms, wake up with time to get ready, and get to class on time!

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 5 Painfully True Stages Of Camping Out At The Library

For those long nights that turn into mornings when the struggle is real.

3109
woman reading a book while sitting on black leather 3-seat couch
Photo by Seven Shooter on Unsplash

And so it begins.

1. Walk in motivated and ready to rock

Camping out at the library is not for the faint of heart. You need to go in as a warrior. You usually have brought supplies (laptop, chargers, and textbooks) and sustenance (water, snacks, and blanket/sweatpants) since the battle will be for an undetermined length of time. Perhaps it is one assignment or perhaps it's four. You are motivated and prepared; you don’t doubt the assignment(s) will take time, but you know it couldn’t be that long.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments