Do you show yourself constant support and loyalty? Or do you let others influence your own personal decisions?
Do you keep promises you've made to yourself? Or do you constantly make up excuses as to why you shouldn't fulfill them?
There's going to be times where your faithfulness is being put to the test. Asking yourself who you really are and what exactly you're seeking in something should be your number one priority. Are you being faithful to yourself? Or are you choosing to be faithful to the ones who believe they make decisions for you?
As a twenty year old I've encountered simple situations as to how my faith was tested against myself, and also extreme encounters as well. Through all of these lessons I've learned, I believe that here and now I have made the smarter choices and I am proud of who I've become.
We've all been peer-pressured to do something when our internal instincts are telling us "no". Personally, if I'm not comfortable with the situation I'll say "no" straight to your face.
As cliche as it may sound, you are the author of your own life. Have you made promises to yourself including personal goals, dreams, or changing your bad habits into good ones? Do it! Keep those promises and surround yourself with people who care enough to support you through it all.
It was very recently, about three months ago, that I realized I need to stay faithful to myself and not put toxic or negative "needs" before my own. I do things I enjoy and I don't need to ask for approval from anyone.
I read books and articles daily to advance my knowledge instead of binge watching a series on Netflix.
I decided to go and tour around Europe with my friends to venture out and see the world.
I choose to stay in with my family instead of playing Beer Olympics.
I don't drink because I don't like the taste of alcohol.
It took me years to keep these promises to myself. I'm not perfect and I've made mistakes in the past. Making mistakes is natural and that should only grow your faithfulness. If I never made mistakes I wouldn't be as loyal to myself as I am now.
Having positive friends and family plays a huge factor into your own life. I've made tons of new friends while in college and these people have only made me stronger and made me realize who true friends really are. They encourage you, tell you the truth, empower you, and strengthen you especially when you feel weak. It may not happen right away, but when you find the right group of friends for you, it will all be worth it.
So do you still want to go to that frat party everyone's going to? Or would you rather go out for ice cream with a couple of your closest friends and remember the new memories you're creating?
Do you still want to make up excuses for when you break a promise you made to yourself?
Or.. would you rather stay faithful to yourself?
