What I Learned About Guys When Being Their Bestfriend
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What I Learned About Guys When Being Their Bestfriend

Having guys as your bestfriends is weird, lovely and very warm.

Here is what I learned about guys whom have been my bestfriends:

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What I Learned About Guys When Being Their Bestfriend

1. Guys are simple, they speak what they think. If a guy says he is busy, then he is busy and not ignoring you. If a guy says something that sounds unpleasant for you, it's not because they meant to hurt you, it's because they always speak the truth, and have no intention to lie.

2. Some guys might have it all, but still lack when it comes to approaching and getting along with women. Believe me, I know some guys, who are everything: funny, tall, handsome, etc. but still they never had a girlfriend because they have no clue how to approach girls. They don't even mind approaching a girl, even if there is someone they really like, they would never do that, ever.

3. Guys are not sly like women. We women, tend to lie, envy and do all sort of sly actions sometime, especially when there's someone we dislike. For guys, this does not exist. They can't even hate someone, unless that person has hurt them really bad.

4. Unless a women is extremely needy, they don't consider her one. Men are the most opening creatures for help. Wherever and whenever, helping a woman is something they would do with open arms and they are never annoyed unless you are becoming a really and extremely needy for them to handle.

5. Guys don't talk about you behind your back. They are simple, and loyal. And this is really assuring.

6. Almost all of the guys swear and curse, but some are grown enough to prevent themselves of using these words in front of women. And this is the best type of guys a girl can ever wish for.

7. They have self-control more than us women. Have you ever had something you couldn't get off your mind, and it made you waste all your day thinking about it? Guys are not the same. They are able to shift all of their focus to whatever they want to, and not getting distracted by incidents going on in their lives.

After all, a group of guy friends, is the best thing a girl would ever have. They have your back, they protect you and you spend lots of great time together.

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