Girls, Don't Underestimate Having A College Guy Friend Who's Happy As 'Just Friends' | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Girls, Don't Underestimate Having A College Guy Friend Who's Happy As 'Just Friends'

All college girls deserve a guy best friend who has pure intentions and wants nothing more than a friendship.

348
Girls, Don't Underestimate Having A College Guy Friend Who's Happy As 'Just Friends'
123rf

I do not think anyone truly understands the significance of having a guy best friend in college who wants nothing more than to be friends. I don't think I would be able to survive without a guy best friend, and I believe every girl deserves that.

First of all, it is refreshing.

Honestly, it is refreshing to have a guy best friend with pure intentions. He wants nothing more than to be there for you as a friend and enjoy your company. He knows where you two stand, and he doesn't try to push beyond those boundaries.

It is such a great feeling knowing you have a guy friend like that, especially in college. You don't have to walk on eggshells. Many college guys only want one thing-- even those who claim to be your "friend". My best friend and I know exactly where we stand. We are just friends and nothing more. I can talk to him about any and everything, and I do not have to worry about it.

Guy best friends give you a different perspective.

Girls, for the most part, will side with their friend. I've witnessed many girls give mediocre advice, and go with whatever you say. When you're in fight mode, so are they. Guys, however, are straightforward. They understand the male perspective, and they are able to give you insight into any situation you are dealing with.

They are also about to help you make rational decisions. I can't tell you how many times I've gone to my best friend, and he has given me such great advice without having to say much. He really just steers me in the right direction.

Finally, I want good vibes only.

College is all about having a great time. Guys are DRAMA-FREE. Guys are all about good vibes only, and kicking back and relaxing. I literally have no issues with my best friend.

We tell each other things straight up and that's that. We do not dwell on it. We keep it pushing. There is never a dull moment, and I do not have to worry about unnecessary drama.

As said before, all college girls deserve a guy best friend who has pure intentions and wants nothing more than a friendship.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Disney magic for New Year!

The "Happiest Place on Earth" has a lot of characters with some pretty great advice.

4391
Disney magic kingdom castle on new years
StableDiffusion

Disney movies are well known and very popular in today's world. Although many people appreciate the plot and the storyline, not many people appreciate the wisdom these characters possess. Every Disney movie has unique advice that can be applied to everyday life. Here are 11 Disney quotes to help start your New Year off right:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

40 Gift Ideas for the Indecisive

It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. But also a time of stressing over the perfect gift.

118810
Christmas gifts around a tree
StableDiffusion

It's officially December. There is less than a month of 2024, and I still feel like yesterday was summer. Now comes the merriest time of the year, the Christmas season.

Everyone has been waiting for this time of year since mid-October (which is way too early, in my opinion) or before. It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. A lot of times when I ask friends and family what they want, I get a lot of "I don't know" or "I don't care."

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Bucket List To Live In The Now

Find excitement in your life and start exploring wherever you are right here, right now.

882
mu bucket list

I was sitting at my cubicle, now that I am an adult, looking at the rain pouring down on the windowsill, bumming on life, wishing for the rain to just stop for a full day.

There are moments where we count down the hours until work is over and how many more days till the weekend, and this many weeks until something exciting. Or something like that? Well, I was bumming because my next day off from work is not until Memorial Day weekend, which is not until the end of May. And since this is my first year out of college being a “real person,” I am totally missing the winter, spring and summer breaks. I am sure all of us have felt this way even if just for a hot minute…

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Ways To Survive Finals As Told By Leslie Knope

Because you know you're going to be stressed out, and Leslie knows exactly how to survive.

651
Everything hurts and I'm dying

So finals are on their way. That's right everybody, finals are about to start.

But hey, don't panic. Start getting your affairs in order and prepare for a week of hell. Here's a few things Leslie Knope wants you to do to make your finals week just a little bit less stressful:

Keep Reading...Show less
Kent State University
Great Value Colleges

If you go to or went to Kent State, then more than likely you have done or will do some of these things.

1. You’ve slipped and fallen on the ice at least once.

The winters at Kent are brutal, and while the heated sidewalks and some great snow boots are always a help, there’s no chance you won’t bust it on the ice at least once in your four plus years at school.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments