Women are constantly belitting eachother. Lets say bye to judgement and hello to empowerment.
It's a constant struggle. Women being jealous of women. What is frustrating is that all we want is to fit in. So why are we so apt to give our fellow women such a hard time?
It's no question that you're not going to like everyone you meet, and other women have different values and opinions, so why do we take it so personally?
It comes down to jealousy or self projection. Some women talk about eachother out of pure jealousy. Maybe that girl has prettier hair than you or maybe she has cuter shoes or a better body. But, what right does that give anyone to make judgements. Positive or negative, words hurt, there needs to be more emphasis on supporting eachother instead of insulting eachother. Maybe you're jealous of a boyfriend or a bestfriend. Jealousy is a natural human response. Sometimes it gets taken too far.
Women have different morals and attitudes, but it's nobodies business ,but their own on how they handle themselves. Like our mother's always said, "If you dont have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." And for good reason!
A small amount of negative energy can really shoot a girl's self esteem. So if you don't like someone's hair, outfit, body, boyfriend, bestfriend, keep it to yourself. They aren't your problem.
Another reason why women give eachother a hard time is self projection. Sometimes insecurity gets the best of us. We project that on other women to make them feel bad and make ourselves feel better. When you think about it, it's kind of cruel.
The worst part comes from social media. We seek acceptance from likes and favorites on social media platforms. It pits women against eachother. Who has the best insta aesthetic, who has the most likes?
We end up judging eachother by image rather than personality.
The best example of this is female celeb social media. People treat them like they are not humans but they are.
Women write comments to other women like, "I hate her voice and her songs," She's too fat," "She doesn't deserve to be famous," "She's not pretty enough to wear that."
The comments go on and on and it's sickening. Where did we go wrong where we aren't able to wait a minute, take a step back, and say, "hmm maybe I shouldn't judge her, what if someone said that to me?"
Women are women are women. We get enough scrutiny from men everyday. If we can all learn how to accept one another, even with our differences, maybe we could reduce the divide, and even the depression among our age group.
So that girl stole your guy, who cares.
So that girl didn't brush her hair, who cares
So that girl made out with him, and him , and him, who cares.
The only person you should be judging is yourself. All women act differently and live different. If you don't agree? Doesn't matter!
Take time to say she's also a women so I support her too. Or that girl is prettier than me, but good for her, I may be jealous, but I don't hate her.
Spread love and kindness to your fellow women and you will recieve it back.
It's time for all of us to ban together and stop the hate. When will it go to far? It's up to you to stop the judgement and support ALL women.
