Throughout these past few months at home, I've spent a lot of time with my family, but I have also had a lot of time to myself. I've had time to think deeply, to engage in creative projects, and, most importantly, to embrace my true self.

It all started with my hair. Anyone who knows me, knows that I have head full of some crazy natural curls. It seems great, but the truth is that I have a love-hate relationship with it. During school, I often tried to straighten it and calm it down to look more "normal" in order to draw less attention to myself. I envied girls with smooth, straight hair, and I felt like my big, frizzy curls were too messy.

Since I've been away from school and my peers, I've gained a new confidence. I've had no one to please, no one to cast their judgements, and no one to compare myself to. I embrace my own fashion and style with purpose and creativity. It may not be what is trending or popular, but it makes me happy and comfortable. I now let my hair be wild and free. I wear my hair natural every day and only straighten it on special occasions.

These changes have made me realize that I had nothing to prove in the first place. I can be original even when school and gatherings begin again.

I've always struggled with anxious thoughts and worrying about what other people think of me. Some days, I could not even walk to class without being extremely self-conscious. Part of it was my anxiety and the other part was an issue of confidence. Eventually I learned to let go.

Here is my advice:

Be true to yourself. This may seem like something cliche, but the truthful messages we deem "cliche" are often the ones we miss or need to hear the most. There will always be people that make you feel like you are not enough. People will always have their judgments and opinions of you, but it is up to you as to whether or not you will give into the lies. Remember your roots and stand tall in who you are and what you stand for.

Walking down the path of comparison is futile. With social media, it is all too easy, but this road will get you no where. Your friend may have amazing photos, a great appearance, or a cool talent, but that is them. You are you. Embrace what makes you unique and use those gifts to make a positive difference.

Even with all its doom and gloom, this season is here for a reason. When we have time to ask the deeper questions, change and self-improvement can result.

So, what makes you original? What has been holding you back from your goals and true self? What lies are you believing? How can you change that?

- M