Most of the questions I receive are not out of malice but of curiosity and sometimes just clear lack of knowledge. However, sometimes people say some very hurtful things about the way I live my life, such as “Vegetarians are so stupid” or “Vegetarians aren’t real people.” Before saying these things and taking this lightly because it may not seem like a big deal, remember that vegetarians are real people with personal feelings and a little different way of living, and their lifestyle shouldn’t be trashed or made fun of, especially when it is doing the world some good.

Here are my responses to some ridiculous questions I've been asked about what it's like to commit to the veggies-only life.

1. Is being a vegetarian like a religious thing or something?

For me, it’s a personal choice. I face this question almost every single day, and keep in mind, while I don’t mind answering, not all people of the Indian origin are vegetarian, and those who are may not be for religious purposes. In fact, most of my family eats meat. Instead of asking bluntly if it’s for a religious cause, if you kindly ask someone what their reason is for being a vegetarian, they’d be glad to answer and educate.

2. So why are you a vegetarian?

I grew up with my grandmother feeding me, and she is a very strict vegetarian — she won’t even eat eggs. There was no meat allowed in my grandmother’s house, and I never got accustomed to the taste of meat. Later on, I have tried meat, but I just never liked the texture. I did start to eat eggs to fulfill the protein requirement in my diet. As I grew older, being a vegetarian had become so much of my identity, I never really sought to change that.

I also did my research and personally, for me, I decided it was a healthier life decision. I also objected the way that people treat animals during the slaughtering process, and the sometimes inhumane way they are slaughtered. The effect of grazing animals on the environment is grave, so for all these reasons, I will stick to my choice for the rest of my life — it is not “just a phase.” I’m not here to convert you to vegetarianism, but when you ask me a question like this in a condescending tone, be prepared to hear my spiel.

3. What do you even eat — is it just plants? How do you get your protein? What about your iron?

Yes, I do eat plants, and I love eating them. What you may not know, however, is that the majority of plants can be complemented with some chick peas or boiled and salted beans and a fruit to tie it all together. I get my protein through eggs and nuts and my iron through beans, so my health is just fine. I have plenty of variety in my diet, and I love binging on some junk food — I’m not a total health nut.

4. Ew, how can you even eat that?

This usually comes about when I say I like tofu or peas or spinach or any type of “controversial” health food or vegetable. I can eat it because I like it, and it’s not gross to me at all. I enjoy tasting and trying all sorts of new food, and I’m not sorry at all that it may gross you out.

5. Do your parents force you to be vegetarian?

No, my parents have never forced me to become a vegetarian. They have always been supportive of whatever food choices I make in life, and this has been a decision that I made on my own, and intend on sticking too.

6. So are you like vegan? (Right after I tell someone I’m vegetarian)

There is a big difference between being vegan and vegetarian. Vegans do not eat any animal by-products, however, vegetarians do consume dairy and other products. So no, I am nota vegan.

7. Are you like a health nut?

I am most definitely not as healthy as you think I am. Although I am vegetarian, I love shoving my face full of sweets and fried goodness.

8. How are you missing out on this?! *obnoxiously shoves meat in front of my face and feasts*

I am not missing out on this because in no way is the meat you are shoving in my face appealing to me. I understand that it maybe delicious to you, but I don’t appreciate the clear disregard and disrespect of my values. I don’t mind your feasting, just don’t force me or make me feel bad for not taking part.

9. Is it ok if I eat this in front of you?

This is one of the cutest questions I receive. I appreciate your concern, but I totally don’t mind you having a blast with your food. I respect your choices, and I’m glad you respect mine.

10. If the last thing left on earth was meat would you eat it?

Survival man! Of course, I would!

11. How can you not eat bacon?

Surprising as it maybe, I am not obsessed with the bacon food craze. Like I said before, I understand its bacon, but what part of me saying “I’m vegetarian” didn’t clue you into the simple fact that I may just not want to eat bacon.

So eat your bacon and leave me in peace.

I hope this helps you understand why being a vegetarian wasn't a missed stake for me, and the next time you talk to a vegetarian remember to be respectful of their choices.