Several years back, I watched a film created by two talented filmmakers named Jay and Mark Duplass. I remember loving everything about it, even if I didn't quite understand or appreciate why I found it so appealing. Ever since then, I've loved everything they do. They're a major part of why I decided to pursue film, and a few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to see them speak about their journey as filmmakers.
The event was part of a book tour they were doing for their recently released memoir Like Brothers. The book chronicles their creative partnership, the rewards and challenges that come with their partnership, and their life as brothers. They provide advice ("unsolicited advice") about practical, everyday things, as well as lay out in detail how they became the successful filmmakers they are today. Most importantly, they emphasize (without explicitly stating it, except maybe once) that they can relate to you as people, regardless of whatever you do in life (I love the chapter "The Woog" because of this).
The event's discussion focused on little parts of the book (obviously), expanding on topics mentioned throughout, as well as other aspects about the duo's career and partnership. They also told little anecdotes not present in the book, and spoke about other challenges throughout their career. They were exactly what I hoped they would be in person. After the general discussion, they opened up the floor to audience questions, in which they offered sound advice as a response for almost all the questions. I had the chance to ask them how they knew when they found their voice as filmmakers (with their short "This Is John"), which made me realize that you don't really know until it happens, something I've grappled with for awhile. At the end of the event, anyone who wanted could meet and take a photo with them, so I hopped in line (duh, who wouldn't). When it was my turn, I was able to tell them how much of an inspiration they are for me, a moment I will never forget.
Since then, I've read the book cover to cover, laughing and "emit[ting] that quiet 'mmmm' sound" (as stated on the first page). I loved the blend between humor and seriousness that's such an integral part of the work they do. They open up their lives and make you feel a little more sure of yourself, even if it's just for a few hours. I pulled tactics they write about that can help me in my future endeavors. Overall it's fun, honest, and insightful. If you don't know who the Duplass brothers are, you'll want to after reading their story.
Whether you're a filmmaker or in another profession (or just trying to get through life), Like Brothers is a must-read. There's something in it that every single person can relate to, even if they can't relate to everything the two experienced. After hearing them talk and reading the book, my admiration for them grew. Both the discussion and the book carry important takeaways. They have a lot to offer, and Like Brothers provides lessons you can hold in your hand.
