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My Dream Groom Is Not Just Wishful Thinking

He is a man, not a boy.

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My dream man is the man that knows he is beautiful, intelligent and knows how to respect himself.

There are more in a man than just being beautiful. Being beautiful does not mean I want his eyes to be green or brown or blue. I just need to see that those eyes show me how driven he is about his dream. His dream does not have to be that he wanted to be a doctor or a lawyer; his dreams is that he wants to protect his family. He wants to provide his family with money and affection.

His determination to his goals is straight fire. He would work day and night to achieve them because he has this burning passion for accomplishing anything he puts his mind to. However, he won’t forget to pray and wish god to always blesses him because he knows his achievement and success would not be easy without his faith and the love from his family who are always there.

He is intelligent because it is the way he is. He is smart in making you laugh, in another word, he is witty. You can hear the way he makes you giggle and smile and giggle again when he speaks to you. And then, you blush.

He is smart with money; he knows how to save money for his future family.

He is smart, not only book smart, but he is smart in treating you like a damn princess because he knows that you are his only princess.

He knows how to respect himself because that is how you know he will respect you. He would not ask you to come to his one-bedroom sized apartment on the first date because he is afraid to get too comfortable in admiring you that he tries to cuddle you.

He respects himself in a way that he would say no to the girl that wanted to kiss him at a party because he knows that he would only want to kiss someone that he cares and loves about.

He is a man, not a boy.

He completes you, even though you are already 100% complete. He is that extra 50%, going the extra miles. He enhanced the color of your life when it was already rainbow and colorful. He loves you dearly that he would try anything to make you happy because your happiness is a priority.

You are not many other options, you are the only option from many options.

You will then get intimate for the first time, at the right time. Your first time exploring his body, putting a trace in his wonderland would be magical. The blue moon will accompany the both of you. The blue moon that radiates luminous pearls from heaven; you can see it from your ceilings.

You don’t need to worry about the birth control or condoms to prevent pregnancy because you would practice safe sex through marriage.

Both of you are entirely open to the experience and are vulnerable to each other. You would not be scared of those stretch mark on the side of your belly because he will stare at your body as your body is an art at the Louvre museum. You would not even be scared of how the last love has mistreated you. You love, you love wholeheartedly as if it was your first love and he is your last love. He loves, he loves you wholeheartedly as if it was his first love and you are his last.

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2. You will feel like an adult but also feeling like a child.

3. You will have classes that are just the professor reading from their lecture slides for an hour.

4. You will need to study but also want to hang out with your friends.

5. Coffee is your best friend.

6. You don't know what you're doing 99% of the time.

7. You will procrastinate and write a paper the night before it is due.

8. Money is a mythical object.

9. It is nearly impossible to motivate yourself to go to classes during spring.

10. The food pyramid goes out the window.

11. You will have at least one stress induced breakdown a semester.

12. Most lecture classes will bore you to tears.

13. You will not like all of your professors.

14. You will try to go to the gym... but you will get too lazy at some point.

15. When you see high school students taking tours:

16. You will try to convince yourself that you can handle everything.

17. Finals week will try to kill you.

18. You won't like everyone, but you will find your best friends sooner or later.

19. You actually have to go to class.

20. Enjoy it, because you will be sad when it is all over.

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