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Be Fearless About What Comes After College Because If Your Dreams Don't Scare You, They Aren't Big Enough

It might scare you now, but you will end up where you're meant to be after college.

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Be Fearless About What Comes After College Because If Your Dreams Don't Scare You, They Aren't Big Enough
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Imagine this: you’re a junior in college, it’s near the end of spring semester, and it feels like things are moving at such a high speed that you are getting dizzy but you can’t slow down.

That’s a pretty accurate picture of my life right now. I’m realizing that I’m almost a senior, which means I’m almost going to graduate, which means I need to get my stuff together sooner rather than later.

I have about one more year to get an internship, make sure I am absolutely in love with my career choice, and then nail down a job. And to be honest, it’s scary.

Here’s what I am telling myself whenever it feels like too much:

“If your dreams don’t scare you, they aren’t big enough.”

I kind of hate basic, straight-off-of-Pinterest quotes like that, but once I read that, I felt like I could take a sigh of relief.

How do I know I made the right choice in my major? What happens if I don’t get hired? Why does it seem like my friends are ahead of me?

Those are questions I’ve been trying to swat out of my head because they give me anxiety. I do have big dreams and of course they scare me, but that’s the way it should be.

I’m not going to settle for whatever job I can get, that’s not what I’m about. I’m going after what makes me feel like strutting into work everyday with a smile on my face and happiness in my heart.

And if it’s meant to be it will be. I will end up where I’m supposed to end up. That’s how the universe works.

I know those panic-y thoughts will come back in senior year. But I find comfort in knowing that I will not hold back my potential and end up with regrets about my career path. I’m going to go for it and it will all be okay.

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