10 Drawbacks Of Being The Older Sibling | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

10 Drawbacks Of Being The Older Sibling

Who needs a full-time job when you have a younger brother or sister?

112
10 Drawbacks Of Being The Older Sibling
Author's photo

If you're the first born of your family, you know that the pros don't always outweigh the cons. The movies and TV shows can make it out to be the easiest thing in the world. Sure, we get to skip the hand-me-downs and tend to pass our drivers test first but that doesn't change the fact that being the first in line is a full-time job. Here are 10 reasons why being an older sibling might just make you rip your hair out.

1. Your parents have no idea what they're doing

You're the guinea pig of the family. Your parents basically use you as a trial run, see what they did wrong, and try it again with the younger child. I mean, you can't really blame them; if someone threw a kid at me I'd be fleeing in terror.

2. Once you get your license, it's over

Congratulations! You're now the chauffeur of the family. You'll be driving your brother or sister to every study session, practice and outing there is. You're pretty much a free uber, ready to go whenever they want.

3. You can't get away with anything

Younger siblings have a built-in must tell mom and dad switch that I've never been able to figure out. Say goodbye to sneaking out and having fun, say hello to constant tattle-tale alert.

4. You have to be the role model

Ever heard of copycat syndrome? All little kids have it. Meaning, you can't bestow your bad habits on them or your parents will look to you every time they do something even remotely wrong.

5. That phase of trying to send them away in a box

Mom: "What are you trying to mail?"

Me: "A package to grandma."

*package giggles*

Me to younger sibling in the box: "C'mon man, we talked about this."

6. You're no longer the 'cute' one

It's kinda like the younger you are, the cuter you are. AKA, you'll forever be out-cuted.

7. You're followed. Everywhere.

You're their only friend for the first few years, so they're pretty much stuck to you like glue until they figure out other people.

8. People think you're the younger one

I will never understand how someone who's two years younger looks two years older than me. Genetics suck.

9. You're constantly accused of being bossy

I guess years of having to take care of a small human can give us issues with not having everything under control. Usually you can just say you have a younger sibling and they go "ooooh, that makes sense."

10. No matter how much you hate them, you're still their first line of defense

You're their bodyguard, for better or for worse.

Yeah, they can be annoying little butts most of the time. But that doesn't change the fact that they're yours to mess with and no one else's.


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

12572
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
college

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

5550
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

4109
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

3607
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments