To My Ladies Seeking A Man This Fall | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
relationships

To The Ladies Seeking A Man This Fall

Stop seeking a temporary person just to enjoy a moment full of memories.

Kady Cooley
Oct 15, 2018
Mississippi State University
74
https://www.pexels.com/photo/agriculture-blur-close-up-depth-of-field-594584/
https://www.pexels.com/photo/agriculture-blur-close-up-depth-of-field-594584/

Bonfires, pumpkin patches, corn mazes, oh my!

These are only just a few of the many things we enjoy during the fall. However, for many I know you may think that there is one thing missing- a boy.

Girl, let me just tell you that you can enjoy this just as much if not more with some of your closest girl friends. Stop seeking a temporary person just to enjoy a moment full of memories. If you're looking for a man to just enjoy these moments with just so you'll be spoiled for a season then you'll be disappointed.

Grab some of your closest girl friends and go make memories that you can only make with them. Some of my greatest fall memories have been spent with some of my very best friends.

One Halloween I went to a haunted house with a few of my best friends. I had no man and neither did they. I'll never forget my best friend screaming as she ripped out my head full of extensions as we rounded a corner. I had never laughed so hard. I didn't need a man to hide against when I had my best friend to throw in front of me.

I know it's exciting to have a boyfriend to make these memories with, but there is nothing that will compare when having a season full of memories with your best friends.

Host pumpkin carving or painting parties with your girls while watching cheesy Halloween movies. Better yet, why don't you do it under a massive blanket fort.

Instead of being discouraged and upset over not having a boyfriend to enjoy the holiday festivities with take advantage of the moments and make those memories with your best girls instead.

Find ways to make it fun instead of dwelling on the lack of romance you may be lacking. Don't forget that friends are forever.

This holiday season I do have a husband, but being six hours away from home I really miss my best friends. Instead of seeking just my husband to enjoy the moments with I am going to include all of my new friends and make new traditions and memories with. Friends is important ladies- don't forget that. While it's great to have a boyfriend and a husband who becomes your best friend, it is nothing like being surrounded by some of your best friends making memories that only your girls will understand.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Taylor Swift's Eras Tour is What I Hope Heaven Feels Like

By: James McDonald

19622
an image of taylor swift standing center stage surrounded by her backup dancers in elegant peacock esque outfits with a backdrop of clouds and a box rising above the stage the image captures the vibrant aesthetics and energy of her performance during the lover era of her eras tour
StableDiffusion

A three-and-a-half-hour runtime. Nine Eras. Eleven outfit changes. Three surprise songs. Zero breaks. One unforgettable evening. In the past century, no other performer has put on an electric performance quite like Taylor Swift, surpassing her fans ‘wildest dreams’. It is the reason supporters keep coming back to her shows each year. Days later, I’m still in awe of the spectacle ‘Miss Americana’ puts on every few days in a new city. And, like one of Taylor’s exes, has me smiling as I reminisce about the memories of the night we spent together.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

Miami University
80791
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
music
Entertainment

Why Your Astrological Sign May Not Match Your Personality

We are all more than just one sign.

SUNY Plattsburgh
22925
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
astrology
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

UNC Greensboro
8783
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
spring
Relationships

The Importance Of Being A Good Person

An open letter to the good-hearted people.

Sacred Heart University
73761
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less
good person

Trending Topics

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments