Love language is a huge part of dating, so much so it dictates pretty much how to function as a couple.
I had my boyfriend and I take the love language quiz and we figured out mine is acts of service and his is physical touch, but this doesn't mean we're not compatible, we just have different ways we feel love.
For me, he shows he loves me by doing little things to make me happy.
In turn, he feels loved when he is close to me or we are touching.
Learning this has been really helpful in our relationship for a number of reasons but mostly in how we plan our date nights.
I asked him what five dates are his favorite and here is the list I've compiled:
1. Netflix And Chill
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This is definitely an obvious one, but understandable from a man's point of view. Easily the best way to maximize the amount of physical touch is to cuddle (among other things).
2. Reserve A Hotel Room For The Night
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This relates back to number one, but booking a hotel and removing all distractions from your outside life can be very romantic.
3. Night Swimming
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Now whether this is in the nude, in the ocean, or in a pool, there is a certain element in night swimming that adds a romantic flare.
4. Play A Sport Together
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Preferably a sport that can be played in pairs like tennis or golf to keep it within the dating realm. This will allow you both to work as a team and strengthen your bond as a couple.
5. Cook A Meal Together
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This allows for close proximity and teamwork. Not to mention it is super cute and is a easy way to enjoy one another's company.
6. Go Ice Skating
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If ice skating is a bit too perilous for you both, roller skating is a nice substitute. Either will allow the both of you to hold hands and hold the other one close so they don't fall.
7. Take A Dance Class Together
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This can be a very intimate and romantic but lighthearted at the same time. You'll get to hold each other close and next time you're both at a wedding you can bust our you sick new dance moves.
8. Personal Massages
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This is possibly the most you can touch each other without moving it to the bedroom. The sexual tension can make this quite exciting and will allow you to fully appreciate your partner's body in a new light.
9. Play A Game Of Pool
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This is especially affective if you can't play and your partner can demonstrate for you.
10. Build A Fort
Pillow fort combined with Netflix and chill...total game changer.
If your partner's love language is physical touch, these dates are bound to sweep them off their feet.
