How To Make Your Long Distance Friendship Last | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

How To Make Your Long Distance Friendship Last

Distance is just distance.

17
How To Make Your Long Distance Friendship Last
Madison Rose

Having that best friend you can turn to for anything at anytime of the day is something a lot of us are blessed with. When it comes down to it, having that distance in between you and your best friend either makes or breaks the friendship. College lasts about four years of your life. Being apart from you best friend during the most crazy, hectic, and dramatic years of your life is for sure a hard one. Here are some ways to keep the connection continuously going.

1. Communication

Communication truly is key to any type of relationship. The way I communicate with my Las Vegas friends is through FaceTime. FaceTime to me makes me feel as if I am there with my friends due to the fact I can see what they are seeing. In between classes I will make time to send my best friend, Darby, a text to check up on her and to make her feel important. Also, keeping up with their social media is a plus. A majority of us are some what addicted to social media, therefore checking up on your best friends on their different pages makes it easier to see what's going on with them!

2. Managing F.O.M.O.

What is F.O.M.O. you may ask? It means 'Fear Of Missing Out'. We've all been there. That feeling blows when your friend posts a snapchat of an insane college rager that you had no way of making it to. Jealousy instantly kicks in because you weren't there to party it up with your best friend. The way I cope with this situation is to just again, use communication, and make sure she's having a good time. Positivity is key. Ignore the fact your best friend is out doing other things, and think about all your opportunities to go out and do your thing.

3. Visits

Frequent visits to the airport for weekend trips usually aren't an option when you're a college student. Making a plan and putting money away early on gives you time to thoroughly succeed in a fun trip to see your bestie. Try to make it a girls weekend with just the two of you. Have fun activities neither of you have done before laid out! When I flew out my best friend to Denver, we managed to attend a Broncos game, visit the Skyline Beer Garden, and explore 16th Street Mall. Make it a memorable one! Once the visit is over, start planning the next one!

4. Small Gestures

Doing little things for your friends to show appreciation is the best. One thing I would totally recommend would be sending them a care package. Little treats and goodies that would make her smile will really keep the friendship long lasting. Maybe even send it with a hand written letter! This is a cheap, cute way of showing appreciation.

5. Find Things You Can Do Together, Apart

You would think that being apart from someone means that you can't do anything together, right? Well you're wrong! There are many ways to do things together! My friends and I start the same shows and have discussions on them even though we are 614 miles away. Set up a time and suggest a new or current show to start! You can also start the same book, hobby, or give each other suggestions while they are out shopping! Very simple, yet another way to remain connected.

Best friends wouldn't be best friends if they weren't the one you trust and love with everything in you. Continue being there for them through the hard times and remember distance is just distance.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Relationships

The Unwritten Rules Of "Talking"

What is "talking?" How does one "talk?"

6352
girl holding phone
NYCPRGIRLS

Now that it seems “talking” is the new way to date, and will stay that way until another idiotic term is used to describe the people who can’t settle down and just date someone, I feel as if it’s time to go over the unwritten rules of “talking.”

Rule 1. Having feeling without feeling.

Keep Reading...Show less
The Stages of Having FOMO in College
iamthatgirl.com

Are you one of those people that gets super upset when you miss out on anything? Well, you may have FOMO, or fear of missing out. In college it’s not hard to experience FOMO every once in a while. You just love doing everything and anything, so hen you have to miss out on something it's the worst possible thing in your mind. Whether you’re sick, have to work, or have so much work to do you could cry – FOMO will hit you hard in college.

Keep Reading...Show less
Vivien Leigh
Revelist

I've lived a whole 21 years with an RBF (Resting Bitch Face), so naturally, I go through most of these struggles on a daily basis.

And before you ask, yes I'm fine. No, I'm not mad. This is just my face, so take it or leave it! To those of you who have been #blessed with an RBF, you'll probably relate to these more than you'd like to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Iconic Duos: Timeless Legends

From Luke and Leia to Beyonce's twins...

774884
Luke and Leia from Star Wars, a iconic duo
Lucasfilm

“Name a more iconic duo... I'll wait." OK, well, if you insist. In no particular order, here's a list of 100 iconic duos that seem to be timeless.

SEE MORE: This Is The ICONIC Disney Sidekick You Are To Your BFF, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

A Candid Letter to My Best Friends Ex

Because this is the real form of torture you deserve.

1889
middle finger
Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash

What's up Asshat,

I've composed a list of things that I wish upon you, and they're harsh and cruel. These things are things that I wouldn't wish upon my worst of enemies, not even that Starbuck's barista who always screws up my order, not even him. You fall into a whole other category of hate. You surpass Starbucks barista. Congratulations, I'm actually a pretty nice person, making you worthy of every single bit of torture I wish upon you. What are these things I wish upon you you might ask?

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments