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How To Be A Decent Human Being 101

It's really not that complicated.

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How To Be A Decent Human Being 101
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Being a decent human being is honestly not complicated at all. However, sometimes in life, we cross paths with people who just can't seem to wrap their heads around this simple concept. These people complicate it. When we do encounter these individuals, it's hard to stay cool-headed and continue on with our daily lives instead of trying to instill these values deep into their brain. As simple as these concepts may sound, they are often quickly overlooked or forgotten. Being a decent human being costs nothing, but it means everything.

Respect.

Respect everything in your path. I'm talking anything and everything—people, objects, views. Whatever or whomever falls into you lap, simply show respect. You're not always going to agree. I'm not saying you have to, but I am saying you have to understand why others believe what they do. Don't tear down people's happy things. It may sound cheesy but the Golden Rule truly is key—just treat others the way you wish to be treated.

Display integrity.

Be honest and true no matter what the situation or consequences may be. Nothing good comes out of anything built on lies. Nothing beats sincerity, good character, and genuine ethic. Nothing.

Be yourself.

Don't conform to the loudness of the world surrounding you that wants to change you. Stick you your values, stand your ground and show the world just how wonderful it is to be everything you.

Listen to those around you.

Offer your ear and a shoulder when needed. Don't be afraid to let others confide in you when they're going through a rough patch, and all they really need is a friend to be there for them. Get close and offer support.

Be positive.

Nobody likes a Debbie Downer. Although life is not always perfect and stress-free, don't purely dwell on the negatives. Erase this poor me mindset and instead focus on what is going right in your life. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and bringing other people down with you does absolutely no good. Please don't tear others' happiness down with yours. Things will look up soon.

Keep an open mind.

Embrace those you meet with a blank slate.No judgement. No pre-made theories about their character. Accept others' personalities and viewpoints even if they differ from your own. Don't attack others' beliefs if you do not agree. You never know—you may just meet someone that is able to change the way you view a certain thing, and it may turn out absolutely beautiful.

Kill 'em with kindness.

Remember birthdays (even if it does take a helping hand from Facebook). Be genuinely concerned about the health and well-being of those around you, and let others know that they matter to you. Don't shy away from affection, and don't underestimate the power of a kind word.

Work hard.

Remember your New Year's resolutions, keep your grades up, work your ass off and strive to be the best version of yourself that you possibly can. Nothing comes without hard work, so go out there and show the world what you're made of.

Pay it forward.

Offer a helping hand, and step out of your own world to care about something other than yourself. You never know how a small cup of coffee, a kind word or a held door can completely make someone's horrible day turn into a great one. Be the type of person that others know they can rely on and can come to when they're in a bind.

Appreciate everything.

Stop for a minute and look around. Realize how truly blessed you are and how much you have going for you. Stop taking life for granted and realize the areas in your life where you do hold privilege. Show gratitude. Never forget to appreciate those people and things around you, for you never know when they will be taken away.

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