Freshman Woodsies:
Look at you! All moved in, orientated and off to your first First Monday. And, if you are anything like I was five years ago at my own first First Monday, completely up to your ears in "advice for freshman." I remember that feeling; all of the advice and well-wishes and things to remember that people offer you start to blur together into this vague mush. Yeah, yeah... go to class, do your homework, eat more than Ramen, save money....
As an Woods alum, I have a few last minute words of wisdom to share with you that I would have wanted someone to tell freshman me. Just eight things, and I promise I won't mention Ramen. deal?
1. Take Charge of Your Time
This isn't about time management or color-coded planners. This is a plea from my heart to yours to make this time at the Woods your time. It's not my time, or your mom's time, or even your junior friend's time: it's yours. I encourage you to find out for yourself what it means to be a Woodsie. You are seeing the Woods through a fresh set of eyes, and you bring new ideas and traditions with you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. We all had our hand in writing the Woods' story, and now it's time for your chapter!
2. Go to the Library
I'm serious. So serious, that I bumped this up to point #2. There is so much more to the Library than Jazzman's coffee (although this is a great perk!). It took me until senior year to discover that the Library not only had coffee and the occasional book for research papers-- it is a quiet space to hide and study, indulge in some exploration, get a great campus job and to relax between classes. It became a refuge for me during the busy school year, and I wish I had made that connection sooner! (Pro tip: Find the spot in the picture. It's magical, and on the third floor.)
3. Show Up
To class. To meals. To wing events. To concerts. To game nights. To student elections. To club meetings. To Sister's invitations. To picture ops. To random study parties. Just go. I know how easy it is to retreat right to your enticing bed after (and let's be honest, before and during) classes and events, but I promise you that your favorite college memories won't be naps. The more, the merrier has never been more true than on a small campus: every person's presence (and absence) is noticeable. Encourage your friends to go, and let them drag you places in return. It's worth it.
4. Embrace Traditions
Big/Lil week, Ring Day, Homecoming--- the Woods is full of traditions, both grand and quirky, that make for the best college memories. These are the traditions that bring generations of Woodsies together, and are the glue that keeps the college alive. Let the upperclassmen show you the ropes, and start new traditions of your own. Who knows--- maybe the Class of 2065 will give a big shout-out to 2020 someday!
5. Go for a Walk
6. Lean Out (when you need to)
Sorry, Sheryl Sandberg. Leaning in is amazing, and grows you. But on the other side of the leadership coin, sometimes the most mature thing to do is lean back out. Please don't think I'm suggesting never joining a club, or abandoning your post on executive boards. But if you find that your extracurriculars and experience builders are beginning to chip away into your homework or even your health, don't feel guilty about downsizing. See point #1!
7. Trust your Professors
If you need reasons why, read my letter to SMWC professors . It's typical (and understandable) to be a little scared of your profs freshman year. I think we all were at some point! They are on your team, though-- promise. Not to mention, in a few years, you'll be coming to them for advice, reference letters and moral support as you head out into the professional world. Begin building those relationships now. And for heaven's sake--- read (and follow) the syllabus. That's a great start!
8. Be Brave
From one Woodsie to another: Welcome home. Now, go be amazing!
Love,
Class of 2015 Alum
