I don’t even know where to start this letter. It’s as if I can’t find the words to express my gratitude. Throughout my 19 years of life, you have been the most influential. Teaching me the importance of family and compassion for others. Thank you for letting me “borrow” your clothes even when you don’t want to. I guess we look a lot alike, just a consensus from the comments on Facebook when you post a picture of the two of us. You taught me everything I know today, and for that, I will forever be grateful.

From a young age, as you know, I struggled in school. From around 4^th- 8^th grade actually. I know it was incredibly frustrating but, you were patient with me when I needed time to process something or pushed me when I needed a boost of motivation. You knew grade school wasn’t my place but, both you and I were hopeful for a better high school life. I joined the lacrosse team my freshman year and even though you didn’t know anything about the sport, you came to every game. Rain, snow, or shine, you sat in the bleachers cheering me on. Seeing how proud you were of me when I scored a goal, was a feeling I could never forget. And as I walked across the stage receiving my diploma, looking at the smile on your face, made me feel that all of my adversity was worth it.

I was afraid that when I went off to college everything would change. You would want me to be more independent and not want to help me with much. But, I was wrong. You helped me do my first load of laundry via facetime and didn’t judge me when I called to ask if a paper plate could go in the microwave. I stress myself out a lot, but you make sure to remind me that everything will be okay. I would not have had any fun without you sending me “fun money” and telling to go out when I wanted to stay in on the weekend. Even though you live 130 miles away from me you helped make my first year of college much more enjoyable.

I could mention so many more memories and life lessons that you taught me throughout my 19 years of life. My childhood was pretty amazing and I know my adult life will be even more amazing. I love you very much and can’t wait to live two rooms down from you for three months.

Sincerely,

Your Daughter