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Dear The Men Who Tried Their Best But Went Unnoticed

You are truly a warrior in disguise, one day someone will notice you.

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Dear The Men Who Tried Their Best But Went Unnoticed
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We live in a society where the male sex is constantly being judged because of a few mistakes the male sex has made. No one ever appreciates the positive things men do for the people they love; people only want to generalize them off of one little mistake they made or what society made them out to be.

It's time that society realizes all the great things men do for them. So many individuals don't get the credit they do, because they are also found to be the person who "ruins everything" but really they are the individual who truly fights for the relationship to be stronger. It's time for a change and different look into this topic.

Dear The Men Who Tried Their Best But Went Unnoticed,

I'm sorry that your partners such as females, males, and unidentified sexes don't appreciate all the things you do for them. We know that you work hard to make everyone happy, where you're constantly busy because you try to do everything yourself; no one will understand this, but when they do, it's also too late. Apparently, you're not the victim because "you're too busy," but you're really trying your best to adjust to everything and trying to make everyone feel so important.

People post on social media that they want a nice guy to come around and they have been waiting for one to come around. In reality, most of those people probably met a nice, caring, and intelligent guy like you, but those people thought they were better than you. I see this happen a lot of times, where a good looking guy tries his best to get with someone with intentions of a future and they get denied; these guys try their best to move on and when they do they are considered "pigs, man whores, worthless" because they got denied before and are trying to be happy again. It's so sad that social media has created such a horrifying image for the male sex, because everyone believes it's all their fault.

I just want to thank all the guys who truly try their best, but go unnoticed. It's so upsetting that you guys go unappreciated and are found to be the "bad" guys. No one will ever understand that relationships work both ways and that it's not always the male individual who makes the mistakes. Society and their partners like to make guys seem so disrespectful, rude, and careless, but we should realize that your tried your best in all these concurring situations. One day, you'll find someone to love you and realize all the great things you do for them. They won't be ungrateful, rude, or they won't make you be the "bad" guy anymore. I hope that one day is soon, because it is truly sad to see this society generalize guys this way without knowing the true story, the full extent of their will, and seeing how guys really work.

So to society, "boys" don't "suck", "guys" don't "suck" it's you who sucks.


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