I'm going to start off by saying I wouldn't wish a mental block on my worst enemy. It's like wanting to do something, but you physically cannot do it. I got my big mental block, that I still have, August 5th, 2016. I will never forget that date. My coaches encourage us to get privates to get new skills, so I did. I went to privates before and they were great; I was friends with my private coach and all was peachy. I went to go do a layout and I bailed 7 ft in the air and landed on top of my head. I had people running at me to make sure I was okay; parents of kids who were on the floor ran over to me and told me not to move. My coach called my parents and they rushed to the gym. I was then brought to the hospital in an ambulance on a spinal board and in a neck brace. The trauma room was filled with people, everyone doing something different. They did CT scans, x-rays. It was the scariest day of my life. I was sent home with a neck brace and told to come back in three days. I went back and got the neck brace taken off, but I was out of cheerleading for over a month. I was then made an alternate on my dream team. I developed a mental block that got worse with time. I bailed again about a month or so later and made my mental block worse. Today I did my tuck for the first time without warming up or anything, by myself. It was the best and scariest moment of my life. If you never had mental block you're lucky but you wouldn't understand someones mental block. You can't just go up to them and tell them to do it. It doesn't work like that. They will do it when they're ready. That may take a week, or it may take years. I've had mental blocks that took a few days and I've had this one, that I'm still not completely over and it's been 5 months. I will forever say this: if you've never had mental block, you can't go up to someone and say just do it. You will make them more scared, likely because it will make them think about it too much, trying to make you happy. Be patient and calm.
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20 Feelings Anyone Who Loves To Sing Has
Sometimes, we just can't help the feelings we have
Singing is something I do all day, every day. It doesn't matter where I am or who's around. If I feel like singing, I'm going to. It's probably annoying sometimes, but I don't care -- I love to sing! If I'm not singing, I'm probably humming, sometimes without even realizing it. So as someone who loves to sing, these are some of the feelings and thoughts I have probably almost every day.
1. Wow. My voice sounds amazing with this song.
2. Okay, if you can't sing, don't do it.
3. But wait, I don't think I can be friends with someone who isn't going to jam out in the car with me.
4. Dance part in the car! Even when I'm alone. Because every song is my favorite.
5. Stop light. Act calm. Be cool.
6. Yes! Green light! Back at it!
7. I don't know this song, but I'm going to sing along anyway.
8. Why am I not famous yet?
9. Being next to someone who can't sing so you feel good about yourself because you rock!
10. OK, I'm so good. I need to sing louder so I can help these people out.
11. My voice doesn't reach some of those notes, maybe I should sit this one out.
Who am I kidding? I'll just switch octaves and harmonize randomly throughout the song.
12. Randomly bursting out in song and getting weird looks because of it.
13. God, thank you so much for giving me a good voice.
14. Man, I feel bad for people who can't sing.
15. Was I just humming? Did they hear me?
16. Having dance moves to go along with most songs.
17. Not being able to stop yourself at correcting people when they mess up.
18. Maybe I should post myself singing.
19. Nah, can't do it. Dumb idea.
20. Having my own personal concert in the shower. Every single time.
11 Small Victories That Mean A Lot To College Students
Normal people wouldn't understand
Being a college student is one of the most difficult task known to man. Being able to balance your school life, work life and even a social life is a task of greatness. Here's an ode to some of the small victories that mean a lot to us college students.
1. Having time to nap between classes or at all.
2. Waking up 10 minutes before your class starts and making it there in time.
3. Making it to class in general
4. Only having to hit the snooze button three times.
5. When you didn't do the homework and the teacher decides not to collect it for that day.
6. Getting that "I'm sorry, but class is cancelled" email.
7. Finding a quiet seat in the library.
8. Actually enjoying a class and understanding all of the material.
9. Having a friend to eat lunch with.
10. Finishing an assignment before the due date.
11. When there is free food on campus.
Another small victory in the eyes of college students would be just being a college student in the first place. College is not easy and it's definitely not something that everyone can do. So give yourself a pat on the back for at least trying, not everyone makes it this far. While it may be a time of sleepless nights and never ending stress, college is one of the most amazing experiences ever! Some of these little victories are the reasons why we don't give up so let's always remember to be thankful for the little things.
6 Signs You're A Workaholic
Becuase of all things to be addicted to, you're addicted to making money.
After turning 16, our parents start to push us to get a job and take on some responsibility. We start to make our own money in order to fund the fun we intend on having throughout the year. But what happens when you've officially become so obsessed with making money that you can't even remember the last day you had off? You, my friend, have become a workaholic. Being a workaholic can be both good and bad. It shows dedication to your job and the desire to save money. It also shows that you don't have a great work-life balance. Here are the signs of becoming a workaholic.
1. You can't remember your last day off.
Maybe it was three weeks ago. Oh, and you had to request the day off because you had a doctor's appointment.
2. Whenever someone asks to hang out, you're working.
Honestly, don't even bother inviting me places. You already know what the answer will be.
3. When you do see your friends, you're in a "treating mood."
You've managed to save so much money that when the bill comes to the table, you treat everyone to dinner. Finally. Something to spend your money on.
4. You work so much you don't have time to spend the money you're making.
You've casually spent maybe $3 total this week considering you've only had enough time between work to grab a coffee...once.
5. You're too tired to function when you aren't working.
Finally, a day off and the only thing on my mind is how long I can sleep today. Again, don't even bother texting me because I'll be too tired to move.
6. Finally seeing your friends and having way too much to catch up on.
You are with the group again and suddenly you've realized everything that you missed since the last time you've been together, which was more a month ago. Oops!
So, it's time to stop working so much and take time off to enjoy what really matters: the people we surround ourselves with.
Spending five, 10 or even more weeks in the outdoors leading elementary to high school aged kids for a week at a time is unique, to say the least. You see things in yourself you didn't think were there and experience emotions you can not explain. What you learn is valuable for more than just camp, but extends to life after the summer.
1. How to shower in less than 10 minutes.
No longer do I require 30 minutes to shower, but now I have learned to accomplish this feat with minutes left before lights out.
2. Being comfortable sweating, like all the time.
My entire existence at camp was composed of me sweating from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to sleep, and that about sums it up.
3. The beauty of not wearing makeup.
I could rub my eyes without fear of messing up my makeup and was able to get ready in less than five minutes. Besides that, I was able to embrace natural beauty and see that natural beauty in those around me.
4. Naps are essential for survival.
Five, 10, 15 minutes, all naps are created equal and essential as if I did not already know that.
5. Even extreme extroverts need alone time.
Being around people every minute of every day can be exhausting. Even as an extrovert, I saw the necessity for even just an hour of alone time.
6. How to remember names in a few short hours.
OK, sometimes I would forget their name, but nothing a "hey, girl" couldn't be substituted in for.
7. The freedom in sharing your faults.
For me, this came in the form of admitting to high school girls that I am actually really weird.
8. Showering every day is not necessary.
Hey, nothing some deodorant and body spray couldn't cover up.
9. Fake it til you make it.
No, I did not just learn how to drive a boat a week ago, and no I still have no clue how to drive this thing.
10. Bugs are the enemy.
Outdoors equals bugs which means, invest in some strong bug spray and never look back.
Things You Can Get Away With Now That You're At College
83% of my trends in college would have been shamed in high school.
Transitioning from high school to college can be a stressful experience, especially if you're like me and hate change. Over the past two years I've realized there's many things I couldn't get away with in High School that are typically applauded in college.
1. Eat
In high school, you can sometimes get away with eating snacks in class. In college? Professors don't care what you eat. Soda in your 8 AM? Acceptable. Late night snack in the library? No second thoughts. It doesn't matter where you are, food is always acceptable.
2. Be seen running across campus
Waking up at 7:57 for an 8:00 AM class and realizing it's the one day of the year you shouldn't miss... Yeah, sprinting to the other side of campus is acceptable. Suddenly I realize how my days at the gym have paid off. In high school? You get in trouble for being late, but you also get written up for running in the hall. No winning.
3. Sleep
In high school, I could go from school to sports practice to drama rehearsal. Don't get me wrong, I took a few naps before practice in the hallway... But there was always at least one person who would have a comment to make about it. In college? You can sleep anywhere without any judgement, usually without so much as a double take. It's kind of expected in a college environment.
4. Skip Class
Is skipping classes the brightest decision? Probably not... But you really don't miss anything and most professors don't even take attendance anyway. High school on the other hand... I once got written up for skipping a class when I was dismissed early for a funeral. The freedom on this end makes college life almost bearable.
5. Blurt out
In high school, you were raising hands and taking turns. In college, on the other hand, if you raise your hand, you don't get a chance to talk half of the time.
6. Wear dresses
Trying to get through a day, in high school, in a dress is a nightmare. Between friends, teachers, and people you've never even seen before, the "Why are you dressed up?" question tends to get a little infuriating. In college, wearing a dress is not that out of the ordinary. Instead of the inquisitive responses, compliments are actually given out.
7. Wear Crocs
Even better than dresses being socially acceptable... Crocs. Do I still get the occasional joke made about my Crocs? Yeah, but nothing compared to wearing them in high school. They're definitely making a comeback and the comfort of my feet are eternally grateful.
8.Run on 4 hours of sleep
Getting through the day on 4 hours of sleep becomes the norm, and that's on a good day. In high school, I was once told that I looked like I had been hit by a truck. In college though, it's not out of the ordinary to look that way.
9. Use a Laptop
I honestly don't know how college student use pen and paper for taking notes. Professors change slides before I can get the first bullet point down. The freedom of technology in the classroom honestly saves my GPA.
10. Crying
If you're seen crying in high school, you may as well just take a video to send out - everybody finds out. Crying on campus, on the other hand, totally acceptable. Often encouraged. It doesn't matter why or where, it's always okay to cry in college.