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7 Things You Need To Know Before Dating An Ambitious Girl Who Loves Hard

She knows exactly what she wants in life if someone tells her she cannot do something, it makes her want to do it even more.

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7 Things You Need To Know Before Dating An Ambitious Girl Who Loves Hard

This girl loves differently than any other because she knows who she is. She has never questioned her 'true self' because she has always been a strong, ambitious girl since day one.

1. She needs some control in every situation, or she will lose it.

Surprises? No. Spontaneous ideas that she had no part in planning? Hard no.

When she is comfortable with someone she will let go (a little) but that will not happen overnight. The good thing is she is the most reliable and dependable person you will ever meet.

2. If someone called her a follower, she would laugh in their face.

Because she is deadline-driven, competitive, and organized, she is the one who delegates tasks to a team of people. If you go on a group road trip, expect her to have an itinerary planned ahead of time—mostly because she does not trust anyone else to do so.

3. She shoots for the moon and will not settle for landing among the stars.

Her sense of motivation and drive is insane. This girl is her own biggest critic and will not settle for a half-done job.

When it comes to your relationship, she will make it the best she possibly can, give you her all every single day.

4. Going to bed mad does not fly with her.

If there is something up between the two of you, she wants to solve it as soon as possible. She will be up at 3 am arguing until she is red in the face and her eyes cannot even cry anymore.

But only because she cares so much about your relationship that she is willing to stay up and fight it out till you make up.

5. She does not take 'no' very lightly, but she is trying.

She knows exactly what she wants in life if someone tells her she cannot do something, it makes her want to do it even more. She loves a good challenge, especially if it means proving someone wrong.

But to her, you are the most important thing in her life, so she is willing to take a chill pill once in a while. But not every day obviously.

6. She is going to try and fix you, but only with your best interests at heart.

She has made plenty of mistakes herself and does not want to see you make the same ones. If you are about to take a risk, she will surely be the one to point out every caveat.

With her guidance, you will never wonder if you are making the wrong decision.

7. Feeling needed is greater than everything.

This goes for both of you. She wants you to make her feel like she is the reason you wake up in the morning because she would never let you go a day without feeling that.

You will have plenty of moves to thank her for in the future.

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