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My Thoughts On Dating People From Other Schools

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My Thoughts On Dating People From Other Schools
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Well guys, I am not going lie, it is super difficult dating someone at a different school than you attend. The only plus side I can think of is that you can look like a slob, and not have to worry about them seeing you like that. I am just kidding, there are a few other positives, and negatives.

I have been dating my boyfriend for over three years now, and we went to different high schools and now we are attending different universities. My boyfriend is actually a year ahead of me, so my hopes were high during senior year when he was going to the college I was going to attend, then he transferred. I guess I just can't win.

I think some of the biggest downfalls of going to different schools are that you can't see each other daily, none of your classes are the same, you have different social groups, and you just don't get to have a lot of experiences together. Luckily, he does go to a university only 12 minutes from mine, which means I do get to see him frequently. I suppose I just always dreamed of walking hand in hand to class, studying in the library together, and getting to look back and laugh on times in class like I see him and his friends do.

There are a couple of bonuses to being in separate schools though. You get to branch out and meet new people. You get to attend double the amount of dances, sporting, and social events. Also, you get to experience two different school atmospheres, instead of just your own. You also get the opportunity to create your own identity rather than just being your boyfriend's girlfriend or visa versa. These are all some positive notes to being in a different school than your significant other.

I am going to be honest. I would love to attend the same school as my boyfriend, but he chose his road and I chose mine. My advice is to not let the negatives steer your life. Yes, it can be saddening to be apart, but don't allow that sadness to make decisions for you. I would not trade the relationship I have for the world. Optimism and looking forward to the future you will have with your significant other can help fill the gap of time you are apart. Make the best out of the time you do get together, smile as much a possible, and love more than you knew your heart could. Let your heart and soul pick who you end up with, not the school you attend.

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