Do you ever think to yourself, what is life all about? I do. A lot. Somehow, I always come up with a complicated answer, especially after I Google search the question. Wikipedia describes the meaning of life as "derived from philosophical and religious contemplation of, and scientific inquiries about existence, social ties, consciousness, and happiness."
Yes, that is probably true, but it is also probably way too complicated for the average person to grasp. Regardless of what Wikipedia says, through personal experience, I've come to the conclusion that the meaning of my life is all about being a damn good person.
In reality, I don't believe that I was put on this planet to discover the cure for cancer, end a war, reduce poverty or become the next president. Rather, I think that I am here to be a good person and a positive influence on those around me. If you can't look at yourself in the mirror and fully support each decision you've made, then those decisions have not been worthwhile.
Are you making a positive, lasting impression on the world or even just on another person? No? Why not? Isn't that the ultimate goal of humanity? To improve the lives of those around us while simultaneously trying to achieve our own happiness? Then you might be doing what we call "life," wrong. We aren't here for ourselves. We are here for each other.
A little while ago, I saw someone eating alone during lunch while attending a group event. I knew her well, but I didn't do anything. I sat in my seat, at "the popular table." But I was debating whether or not I should go sit with her. And why didn't I, you may ask? Because I didn't want to lose my spot. To this day, I can't even figure out what is right half the time. I'm in college.
Do I want to fit in or do I want to do the right thing? Both, actually. But it's hard to achieve. Nevertheless, I try. And so should you. Although the lunch table scenario harkens back to the days of second grade, it is still relevant today and can make a significant impact on someone's day.
You don't have to be perfect all of the time, but at least prove to yourself that you are making an effort to improve. I try every day and so should you. Maya Angelou once said, "I learned that people will forget what you said and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
And that's the downright truth. So the next time you walk out the door, think to yourself, "Today, I'm going to be a damn good person." Then do it.
