A Dad's Love Is Something Every Girl Needs | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

A Dad's Love Is Something Every Girl Needs

Here's to all the daddy-daughter fights.

30
A Dad's Love Is Something Every Girl Needs
McKenzie Jackson

I am very fortunate to have a strong relationship with my biological father but blood does not automatically make a bond. We have been on quite the roller coaster of loving each other to hating each other to loving each other.

Growing up in my early childhood being the only girl of two boys I was a daddy's girl. I always wanted to be with my dad and doing what my dad was doing. Yes, of course, I loved my mama too but any chance I could spend with dad was the time of my life. Then I started to get older which was hard on his and I's relationship. I started wanting to wear makeup and hang out with boys which me being daddy's little girl was an absolute no from the start.

Entering high school I saw my dad and I's relationship become nonexistent. He was the last person I wanted to talk to or share anything with yet he supported me in all of my athletics no matter how big the argument was. We were constantly arguing over what I know now are stupid meaningless things such as: why I could not stay out all night, why I could not do what all my friends were doing, why I could not go where all my friends were going and so on. Realizing now every stupid fight that I got into was over him trying to protect his baby girl and him trying to look out for me makes me sick to my stomach.

The parties he saved me from, the boys he saved me from, and the long dangerous road I could've gone down that he saved me from I cannot thank him enough. High school was not easy and I made a lot of mistakes but guess who punished me and made me learn from each of those mistakes, my dad.

But after a year away from home, my freshman year of college, our relationship instantly went back to the way it should have been all through high school. My dad is my best friend (after being my dad, of course) and he always is willing to help me. I am thankful for you and I look forward to having you by my side through these next milestones of my life.

So I am sorry for being young and dumb and not realizing that you were loving me and protecting me from this cruel world. I am sorry I threw a wrench in our relationship but thank you. Thank you for teaching me to be a strong, hardworking, and independent woman. I have you to thank for where I am and where I will be going.

This one is for you dad.

Love,

Your Little Girl


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

179400
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

6537
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

452016
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

23022
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments