Throughout my K-12 journey, I noticed that there was always one or a few students who were labeled the “Teacher’s Pet”. This name was usually given to a student who volunteered all the time and defended everything the teacher said among other things. Most students were afraid of being given this title, and those who were given it didn’t always embrace it.
I was never called a “Teacher’s Pet,” but I probably could’ve been considered one. I did all of my work, answered as many questions as possible, sometimes got them little gifts, and talked to them outside of class. My reasoning for this was not to be perceived as a student who should be favored over others, it was to show respect for the teacher and gratitude for their hard work.
Most teachers work long hours that they aren’t given overtime for and spend a lot of time trying to make class enjoyable for their students. I try to take advantage of everything a teacher will offer from extra assignments to extra help. I want them to know that someone cares and appreciates them.
Besides this, in college, it seems that more and more people fall into this pattern. The professor usually tries to have discussions and appreciates those who participate. Then, if you get to know the professor, they will probably be happy to know that someone cares about the class they are in and is a conscientious student. It is more common to see students use office hours in order to introduce themself, talk about the problems they are having, and more.
Though I can see the fault in a student doing things just to get attention, or to try to get a better grade and be favored, I think it is important to make some form of effort. Your teacher will most likely appreciate your kindness and approachability and will be more willing to help you in your future endeavors since they know so much about you. College recommendations are important, and if you have a favorite teacher who knows you very well, your letter will probably be great.
So don’t be afraid of being called the “Teacher’s Pet,” be part of the effort to give more respect to teachers, and I assure you, it will pay off.