From time to time, I get a little too caught up with everything that's going on in my life such as school and work and in result — like normal, I get frustrated and overwhelmed which causes me to become stressed when in reality all of this could be avoided completely. Here are some things I need to be reminded every now and then.

1. You don't have to prove anything to anyone.

You know what you do and don't do. Wasting your time on someone's perception of you is really irrelevant. Get that through your mind and accept it.

2. Don't strive for success mainly just because you feel like you need to prove people wrong.

Success is success. Whenever, however you achieve it — make sure it's not out of spite and resentment. Do not work that hard just because people say otherwise and have it thrown back in your face at then end because it's something that you don't even want.

3. Be upfront whenever a situation bothers you.

You are literally the only one that is in control of your own life. If you feel like certain people are trying to hinder you from that, if their intentions aren't good or don't benefit you in any way — there should be no reason as to why these people are still around you. You know how you get. Cut them out of your life.

4. When people disrespect you, come back even harder.

You have one slick mind. You have the tendency to see people's intentions right off the bat. People think just because you keep to yourself, they can take advantage of you to the best of your ability. Use that to yours.

5. You deserve more than you think.

Don't settle just because it makes you comfortable. You know that the best memories are made by stepping out of that comfort zone. Do so, girl. You got it.

6. If you want it bad enough, get it.

You are more than willing to get what you want. You are only aware of your own strengths and weaknesses.

7. What you define as "success" or "perfection" is completely different than others' definition.

Remind yourself that not everyone is in the same scenario or has the same goals as you. When you tell anyone your intentions, you're going to get a ton of opinions thrown back at you. Another man's trash is another man's treasure and in this situation, what you consider treasure could be perceived as "trash" to someone else, or vice versa.

8. Patience is key.

You expect so much in such a short period of time. You assume that just because you did this one deed, people and/or life owes you another. Stop working just to "show off". This is for you — keep it that way and reward yourself in the long run. It will pay off one day, but just make sure the focus is on you.

9. Prioritize your life and be careful.

Time with friends, family and etc. have to be prioritized as much as you don't want that. You're balancing school and work both full time — your schedule is full enough. Be careful with what you're doing, but considerate at the same time.

10. Not everyone was raised like you.

Consideration, honesty and generosity are not maintained automatically. This is something that needs to be taught. The attitudes of others shouldn't affect you in any way. Keep it moving.

11. Stay strong.

You've made it this far. There's no need to give up now. It will all pay off in the end. Remember why you started.