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10 Things College Students Want You To Know

Stop asking me when I'm going to graduate, Debra.

Josie Howell

Dec 03, 2018

Jacksonville State University

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Overall, we constantly feel judged by these things that we continuously hear. Although, for the most part, we know that people tend to mean well. This is why we never say anything even if you are making us feel bad about our major life choices we spent forever thinking about before they were ever made, or if you are just stressing us out in general. These are some points that we want you to know that we would never say otherwise.

We hate talking about how classes are going; we don't want to think about it when we don't have to.

If we haven't been ourselves lately, please don't be angry with us; it is only because we are carrying more stress than we know how to handle.

Most of us are depressed because this is a whole new world we are having a hard time adapting to. Never tell us to "just cheer up."

If you ask us what we're majoring in, don't be an a** if you don't like the answer; honestly, it's no one's business whether someone want to be a biology major or major in baking apple pies.

PLEASE don't ask us our future plans; most of us are still trying to figure that out, and the rest of us aren't 100% sure things will go according to plan and it. is. terrifying...

At the end of each semester, during finals, we're probably going to disappear for awhile.

We know you mean well, but by all means, never tell a college student what YOU think they should do with their major.

Don't ask us about our dating life; we almost feel attacked when you do. I know I'm single. I know I'm sad and lonely. I know I'm ugly. Let me be Barbra.

Please for the love of all things good, do not tell me I need to be more social. I barely get enough sleep at night as it is.

We need more support and less judgment; we get way more judgment than anyone may ever realize. In other words, stop being a dream crusher.

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We hate talking about how classes are going; we don't want to think about it when we don't have to.

If we haven't been ourselves lately, please don't be angry with us; it is only because we are carrying more stress than we know how to handle.

Most of us are depressed because this is a whole new world we are having a hard time adapting to. Never tell us to "just cheer up."

If you ask us what we're majoring in, don't be an a** if you don't like the answer; honestly, it's no one's business whether someone want to be a biology major or major in baking apple pies.

PLEASE don't ask us our future plans; most of us are still trying to figure that out, and the rest of us aren't 100% sure things will go according to plan and it. is. terrifying...

At the end of each semester, during finals, we're probably going to disappear for awhile.

We know you mean well, but by all means, never tell a college student what YOU think they should do with their major.

Don't ask us about our dating life; we almost feel attacked when you do. I know I'm single. I know I'm sad and lonely. I know I'm ugly. Let me be Barbra.

Please for the love of all things good, do not tell me I need to be more social. I barely get enough sleep at night as it is.

We need more support and less judgment; we get way more judgment than anyone may ever realize. In other words, stop being a dream crusher.

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1. Waking Up Early in College is So Much Harder

2. You Have to Get Used to Walking Everywhere

3. Fuzzy Socks are the Cure to All Problems

4. Take Every Opportunity to Get Free Food

5. It's Okay to Gain the "Freshman Fifteen"

6. Invest in Vitamins and Supplements

7. Making Time to Clean is Essential

8. Drinking Water is Actually Important

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1. Me after every class

2. If you really care about your grades

3. When you get a new homework assignment

4. When people ask what you're going to do after college

5. When you see people who don't study and get good grades

6. We're all broke here

7. FREE FOOD IS FREE FOOD!

8. When it seems like everyone in class is smart - EXCEPT THE PEOPLE IN YOUR GROUP PROJECT!!

Other than knowledge and all those important things

How to take stairs.

Caffeine is your friend.

How to study.

Finding free food.

How to take a nap anywhere.

How to appreciate sleep.

How to procrastinate productively.

Surprise: This is not on the syllabus

1. As a freshman, one does get to be called “freshman” by upperclassmen when they walk to parties in a mob of people.

2. Some of the best stories happen after 2 a.m.

3. Upperclassmen live for meal swipes from freshman because they are poor and need free food.

4. People are struggling just as much as you are so you're not alone.

5. You will never take privacy or personal space for granted ever again.

6. You are not the only one who has slept on the community bathroom floor after a night out.

7. Skipping class for Netflix is a valid excuse.

8. It’s totally acceptable to bring a pot of coffee, a sleeping bag and a pillow to the library.

9. Having class with a friend is the best because you can trade off days on who goes to class.

10. When you are a senior, you take the easiest classes to boost your GPA.

11. How to pull an all-nighter.

12. How to handle drunk people.

13. The drunk you does not look out for sober you about 90 percent of the time.

14. How to deal with a hangover.

15. How to interact with people very different from you.

16. The perfect amount to procrastinate on every assignment.

17. How to pass a class without paying for the textbook that was "required."

18. How to calculate your grades to see what you need on every test in order to maintain a passing grade.

19. How to hook-up with someone without getting emotions involved (but we all know that doesn’t happen).

20. How to handle your roommate when you want to strangle them.

21. That you miss your parent’s every day.

22. How to get into a bar when you aren’t 21.

23. How to BS on assignments, out loud and on your resume.

24. That theme parties are the greatest.

25. How to find free events that have free food.

26. That when there are puppies on campus it will be the greatest day of your life.

27. Alarms are necessary and you must set like seven of them in order to wake up in time for class.

28. Greek parties are exactly how they are in movies.

29. Care packages are treated like Christmas presents.

30. The friends you meet in college will become your bridesmaids and groomsmen.

31. That printers only break when you need them the most.

32. Cereal, ramen noodles, Easy Mac and microwavable pancakes can be used for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

33. That classes before 8 a.m. should be illegal.

34. Changing your major is OK.

Don't let the thesaurus-inspired vocabularies in our résumés fool you. We're actually just big kids.

"You should know exactly what career is right for your future by the time you're 18."

"Save all your money."

"Get plenty of sleep and adjust to a regular sleep schedule."

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