Have you ever noticed how difficult it is to date in college? In the movies they make it seem like it's this breeding ground for sexual deviancy. A place where pre-pubescent teenagers are somehow able to make friends at a rapid vapid pace, and then become completely overwhelmed and consumed by one another and find their significant others at the drop of a hat. Needless to say all of this was accomplished within the first few weeks of classes.
Well, that's in the movies. Sometimes. In reality it is a little more difficult. In reality there is a high chance that you won't find someone who can and will reciprocate your feelings right off the bat, and that's fine. It may seem like the end of the world, but to be honest you're probably better off anyway.
This is the reality of attempting to date throughout college, even after freshmen year. There aren't many serious relationships, mainly hookups. Obviously this is not always the case and certainly there are some outliers to this equation, if you are one kudos to you, but often not. But that is the thing about college you don't have to be in a relationship, or a thing, or some weird awkward flirtationship. None of that matters. This isn't the time to be tied down anyway, so if hookups are your thing, whatever. Do your thing, just make sure that you're safe and mentally/emotionally prepared for what you may get yourself into.
