A Chosen Family: My CKI Story | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

A Chosen Family: My CKI Story

We're not just members-- we're family.

10
A Chosen Family: My CKI Story
Kelsey Branstrator

I'll be honest-I'm not sure how to start off a story detailing one of the most impactful parts of my life, especially since I never thought the roots of this organization would cause my life to flourish and thrive in the way it has.

To those who have no idea what Circle K is outside of the name of a gas station (a running joke for those in our org), it's the largest student-led service organization chartered at college campuses across the world in conjunction with Kiwanis. Key Club, Builders Club, Aktion Club and K-Kids are all a part of this family that promotes leadership, service, fellowship and overall a sense of community and love that I haven't experienced with any other organization.

Circle K is like many other organizations on campus in that it is student led, but at the same time, it's a breed completely of its own that fosters a sense of family in an international organization. When I first joined a few years ago, I thought I could make a difference through serving and volunteering with others. Little did I know, the organization also made a difference in me, providing me with friends that I've cried, laughed, accomplished successes with and most of all learned from.

In 2015, I applied and was accepted for an opportunity to grow. Only-- I didn't know it at the time. Leadership Academy was a six-day event that took place in the middle of No-Cellphone-Network, Indiana and included sixty something students from all over the U.S., Canada and Aruba that joined together to learn about ourselves and the organization that we're a part of. We were divided up into several "neighborhoods"-- mine was Lightning Strike.

Leadership Academy was a life-changing experience for me, as cliché and over-used that phrase may be. How so? Learning it's okay to be me. It's okay to be vulnerable with complete strangers that would soon become a group akin to family to me. We all have quirks, things we may not like about ourselves and oftentimes we're especially critical towards ourselves for just being who we are. I learned that we're all puzzle pieces that are a little crooked, worn and misshapen in our own ways-- but when we come together, nothing could be more perfect. We are meant to be everything that we are, and when we need to change, there are people there to support that change.

L.A. in 2015 was just the start for me. Every year, Circle K has an international convention where everyone gets together and votes for international positions, amendments and enjoys workshops, time with our crazy CKI buds and a ton of fun (not to mention, lack of sleep!). This year we gathered in Toronto, Canada. I had been several times before, but none like this.

I'm not quite sure how many miles I walked per day or how many times I had to do my "hustle" walk from the hotel to the convention center, nor could I put into words how many smiles and laughs filled my waking moments during those six days I was surrounded with people I met a year or more ago, or people I had just met.

Special can't even begin to describe this group of people. Aside from L.A., attending these conventions also reminds CKI'ers just how incredible Kiwanis is in itself. Kiwanis also has their own conventions and joined Circle K this year in Toronto. Sitting in on their opening ceremony and watching as flag-bearers walked down the center aisle, until the last two flags were carried down, those of Canada and the US, brought tears to my eyes. Not only did I start to realize the difference I could make, but the difference all of us made--in our home clubs and in the world.

But even looking at all of the service hours we've put in, the time spent bonding, creating and learning, the numerous countries that Kiwanis has helped eliminate Maternal-Neonatal Tetanus in, the bigger picture is us. At the end of the day, landscaping looks nice, helping out kids with homework or organizing an event that hosts hundreds of people around the world is great...but the impact we've had is beyond our numbers. One person can impact hundreds, thousands of lives. Being a part of CKI to me means just that...making a lasting impact beyond the hours I put in to serve and encouraging others to join and become a part of an organization that moves forward not as members, but as family.

I've learned to live my life not just as a member of a community, but as a community, a community of friends from all over that live to serve and couldn't be more proud of what they stand for.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Christmas Tree
History.com

Now that Halloween is over, it's time to focus on the Holiday Season. Don't get me wrong, I think Thanksgiving is great and can't wait for it, but nothing gives me greater joy than watching Freeform's 25 Days of Christmas, lighting peppermint scented candles, decking the halls, and baking gingerbread cookies. So while we approach the greatest time of the year, let's watch the 15 best Christmas movies of all time.

Keep Reading...Show less
6 Signs You Are An English Major

There are various stereotypes about college students, most of which revolve around the concept of your major. Unfortunately, we often let stereotypes precede our own judgments, and we take what information is immediately available to us rather than forming our own opinions after considerable reflection. If I got a dollar for every time my friends have made a joke about my major I could pay my tuition. One stereotype on campus is the sensitive, overly critical and rigid English major. Here are six telltale signs you are one of them.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

27 Things 'The Office' Has Taught Us

"The Office" is a mockumentary based on everyday office life featuring love triangles, silly pranks and everything in between. It can get pretty crazy for just an average day at the office.

2907
the office
http://www.ssninsider.com/

When you were little, your parents probably told you television makes your brain rot so you wouldn't watch it for twelve straight hours. However, I feel we can learn some pretty valuable stuff from television shows. "The Office," while a comedy, has some pretty teachable moments thrown in there. You may not know how to react in a situation where a co-worker does something crazy (like put your office supplies in jello) but thanks to "The Office," now you'll have an idea how to behave ifsomething like that should happen.

Here are just a few of the things that religious Office watchers can expect to learn.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

10 Signs You’re A Pre-Med Student

Ah, pre-med: home of the dead at heart.

1749
Grey's Anatomy
TV Guide

Being pre-med is quite a journey. It’s not easy juggling school work, extracurricular activities, volunteering, shadowing, research, and MCAT prep all at the same time. Ever heard of “pain is temporary, but GPA is forever?” Pre-meds don’t just embody that motto; we live and breathe it. Here are 10 symptoms you’re down with the pre-med student syndrome.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

High School And College Sucked All Of The Fun Out Of Reading

Books were always about understanding for me, about learning the way someone else sees, about connection.

1284
High School And College Sucked All Of The Fun Out Of Reading

I keep making this joke whenever the idea of books is brought up: "God, I wish I knew how to read." It runs parallel to another stupid phrase, as I watch my friends struggle through their calculus classes late at night in our floor lounge: "I hope this is the year that I learn to count." They're both truly idiotic expressions, but, when I consider the former, I sometimes wonder if there's some truth to it.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments