Choose your friends carefully because it will effect to your whole life!
I remember that, when I was a kid, hard to get communicate with people who I want it to hang out with but actually I was wrong, because I was choosing wrong friends who were wasting my time.
Yes, it is happens any time, any age and anywhere.. We can not read people's mind, we don't know how much it affects our lives, but we can make our own future.
Sometimes, I still get disappointment from friends but that's how supposed to be in your life to gain experience and it will be continue.
You are the key that, you can give a direction to yourself and make your own audience who really believes in you and support you no matter what.
Believe me, having a few friends is much better than having hundreds of friends who follows you and acting you like a good buddies.
Many people in your life seems like close to you, sometimes you really think that person understand you and believing you, but by the time, you realize that, it was just a simple friendship. It is not the way that you thought and at the end, it give you a lesson...
Everybody seems so nice and everybody polite when you met.. Many people in your life just acting nice with a mask than being very honest.
Than, there is a big question.
whom do we trust as a friend?
Well, you really should find yourself.
When you love to someone, also you need to be friend in your relationship..
Do you know why people are not happy in their relationships?
Because they are not friends of each other. They share only one thing but they miss the other important thing.
"To be friends"...
When you be a friend with somebody, you care more about him/her and share many things together. Like how suppose to be to build up a relationship. It should be the same when you love to someone!
Many people outside, they separate friendship and romantic relationship from each other.
I am not saying that, love your friend like a lover. No!
But I am saying the opposite way. Love your lover like a friend!
That's why you will understand how important friendship is and how effects to your life!
*Do not be afraid of being selective about people.
*You don't have to be close to your all friends.
*Do not open your life's door to everyone, because everyone will not deserve it.
*Do not think everybody has the same character as you.
Believe in that, depending on whom you choose, will give you a better life or the same life without any improvements.
Put your favorite music, close your eyes.
Now, think of your friends who really care about you, who is supporting you and always be with you.
Did you find any friend?
Now you know that person and you know the different with other who friends with you.
or you got nobody?
Then you should start working on your friends who really care about you.
They are friends who will change your life and see your success in your life.
Be with the people who fanning your flames!
Thursday, March 15, 2018 - 6:30PM
Health and WellnessMar 15, 2018
Choose your friends carefully
Because it will effect to your life... - Written by Tolga Guner
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