Happiness Is A Choice | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

Happiness Is A Choice

Choose happiness, not bitterness

49
Happiness Is A Choice
Kylee Sampson

"Happiness is a choice, NOT a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you, it can only come FROM you." -Ralph Marston

When you wake up in the morning, you have two choices: be happy or be miserable.

What do you choose?

Automatically, we all choose happy but what happens when the day doesn't start like you hope? What if your day starts out by spilling something or you forget something you needed for the day? Do you still choose to be happy?

That's where happiness becomes a choice. We are not in control of what happens to us throughout the day, but we are in control of how we handle the situations.

When something bad happens, if we are to say, "it's okay, I'm not going to let this ruin my day," then that's exactly what will happen. If you just let these little things upset you, you aren't choosing to let them go and be happy.

Just think of how much better your days would go if we took every bad situation and changed our attitudes to be positive? Would that change how most of your days turned out? Would you have fewer "bad" days?

Happiness is what happens when you decide to look past the idea of things being "perfect" and embrace the imperfectness of the beautiful life you were blessed with.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
friends
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

If I have learned one thing in my lifetime, it is that friends are a privilege. No one is required to give you their company and yet there is some sort of shared connection that keeps you together. And from that friendship, you may even find yourself lucky enough to have a few more friends, thus forming a group. Here are just a few signs that prove your current friend group is the ultimate friend group.

Keep Reading...Show less
ross and monica
FanPop

When it comes to television, there’s very few sets of on-screen siblings that a lot of us can relate to. Only those who have grown up with siblings knows what it feels like to fight, prank, and love a sibling. Ross and Monica Geller were definitely overbearing and overshared some things through the series of "Friends," but they captured perfectly what real siblings feel in real life. Some of their antics were funny, some were a little weird but all of them are completely relatable to brothers and sisters everywhere.

Keep Reading...Show less
Sorority Girls
Owl Eyes Magazine

College is a great place to meet people, especially through Greek life. If you look closely at sororities, you'll quickly see there are many different types of girls you will meet.

1. The Legacy.

Her sister was a member, her mom was a member, all of her aunts were members, and her grandma was a member. She has been waiting her whole life to wear these letters and cried hysterically on bid day. Although she can act entitled at times, you can bet she is one of the most enthusiastic sisters.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

10 Reasons Why Life Is Better In The Summertime

Winter blues got you down? Summer is just around the corner!

463
coconut tree near shore within mountain range
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

Every kid in college and/or high school dreams of summer the moment they walk through the door on the first day back in September. It becomes harder and harder to focus in classes and while doing assignments as the days get closer. The winter has been lagging, the days are short and dark, and no one is quite themselves due to lack of energy and sunlight. Let's face it: life is ten times better in the summertime.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

10 Things That Describe You and Your College Friends

The craziest, funniest, and most unforgettable college memories are impossible to create without an amazing group of friends.

243
College Friends
Marina Lombardi

1. You'll never run out of clothes when you have at least four closets to choose from.

2. You embrace and encourage each other’s horrible, yet remarkable dance moves.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments