Chivalry: Dead, Civility Dying (Rapidly) | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

Chivalry: Dead, Civility Dying (Rapidly)

The Rapid Death of Civility Towards the Service Industry

24
Chivalry: Dead, Civility Dying (Rapidly)
Fit Next

As many say "chivalry is dead," civility continues to die. More specifically, in the customer service industry.

I would like to preface this with a monumental thank you to those that treat customer service industry, especially those in food service, with the same respect you would anyone else. You are the people that make our jobs bearable and even somewhat enjoyable.

For those of you who believe that we are lesser beings for serving you or that we are in our positions because we are less intelligent than you, I have a few words for you. You. Are. Wrong.

Story time.

Once upon a time at the restaurant that I work at a customer came up and ordered some food. The tone that was struck was not the most pleasant to begin with but it was late and my co-worker and I were willing to look past this. Said customer ordered a dish that took additional time to make and some additional food that took considerably less time. Customer wanted the food at the same time so we did not put her side in the oven at the same time. We informed said customer of the time delay and the customer in question seemed fine with it if not slightly disgruntled.

I had made the mistake of not setting aside that amount of food for the original customer and another customer had ordered the same thing. After informing the original customer of this I received a slightly stronger reaction, however I explained that we would upgrade her side order to a full order free of charge and we would have another order out for her in about 10 minutes. She seemed okay with this.

Two, yes, two minutes later said customer came up to the counter screaming about waiting twenty minutes for the food we had promised. First off, I'm no expert at math, but I am almost 90% certain that 10 minus two does not equal 20 minutes. But by all means correct me if I am wrong.

Secondly, there is legitimately no reason at all to scream in the middle of a food court. Unless you are dead or dying, use your inside voice. Said customer would not listen to us as we tried to explain the situation to her and she continued demanding her food right that second. Seriously?! I don't know about you, but I am not a huge fan of under cooked food. It is not physically possible to speed up the cooking time of your food without risking ruining it. And you arguing with us after we offered you a full refund on your order is not going to make it cook any faster.

Moral of this story? Don't be a jerk. You make yourself look ridiculous (as the customer behind us proved by exclaiming how obnoxious the original customer was being about the situation). You make us have a hard time serving other customers and making their experience pleasant.

Seriously. It takes zero effort to be a decent human being when dealing with those that are offering you a service. We aren't less intelligent than you. In fact, my two co-workers that oh-so-pleasant evening are probably two of the smartest people I know. They can do math very well and they don't need to be obnoxious brats to realize the reality of whatever situation is in front of them.

Just. Freaking. Be. Nice.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
friends
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

If I have learned one thing in my lifetime, it is that friends are a privilege. No one is required to give you their company and yet there is some sort of shared connection that keeps you together. And from that friendship, you may even find yourself lucky enough to have a few more friends, thus forming a group. Here are just a few signs that prove your current friend group is the ultimate friend group.

Keep Reading...Show less
ross and monica
FanPop

When it comes to television, there’s very few sets of on-screen siblings that a lot of us can relate to. Only those who have grown up with siblings knows what it feels like to fight, prank, and love a sibling. Ross and Monica Geller were definitely overbearing and overshared some things through the series of "Friends," but they captured perfectly what real siblings feel in real life. Some of their antics were funny, some were a little weird but all of them are completely relatable to brothers and sisters everywhere.

Keep Reading...Show less
Sorority Girls
Owl Eyes Magazine

College is a great place to meet people, especially through Greek life. If you look closely at sororities, you'll quickly see there are many different types of girls you will meet.

1. The Legacy.

Her sister was a member, her mom was a member, all of her aunts were members, and her grandma was a member. She has been waiting her whole life to wear these letters and cried hysterically on bid day. Although she can act entitled at times, you can bet she is one of the most enthusiastic sisters.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

10 Reasons Why Life Is Better In The Summertime

Winter blues got you down? Summer is just around the corner!

612
coconut tree near shore within mountain range
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

Every kid in college and/or high school dreams of summer the moment they walk through the door on the first day back in September. It becomes harder and harder to focus in classes and while doing assignments as the days get closer. The winter has been lagging, the days are short and dark, and no one is quite themselves due to lack of energy and sunlight. Let's face it: life is ten times better in the summertime.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

10 Things That Describe You and Your College Friends

The craziest, funniest, and most unforgettable college memories are impossible to create without an amazing group of friends.

379
College Friends
Marina Lombardi

1. You'll never run out of clothes when you have at least four closets to choose from.

2. You embrace and encourage each other’s horrible, yet remarkable dance moves.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments