Each and every day, we accomplish little successes. At the time, these may seem like tiny things, maybe even trivial--like getting a good grade on a test or getting into your college major. Or, maybe it's something small-- like finally mastering a dutch braid (which I am still working on) or writing a relevant essay or article. If we have so many times when we can celebrate, why don't we? Why does life have to be so dull in the moments that we should be coming together to encourage one another?

I notice that throughout life, we are put through the ringer of the culture of busy. We are always going, never slowing down and enjoying the time we have with one another. It gets to the point where accomplishments are just--there-- no celebration, no honor-- especially in the competitive culture of college and the workplace. We all want to be number 1, even in cases where this ranking is arbitrary. We selfishly pride ourselves in our own work, entitling ourselves with false crowns of "success," thinking that somehow we will be dethroned if we let anyone else shine. We must get over this culture, especially in places that foster teamwork and collaboration. How can we get anything done if we are constantly wanting to be the best and out-do our counterparts?

We need to celebrate each other not only to build up rapport within groups but to create a positive environment for everyone around you. I am in no way saying NOT to celebrate your own accomplishments- you should be actively celebrating yourself and your worth. However, this should not stop you from being able to encourage and uplift others for their worth. Everyone deserves to feel worthy, and in this day and age of business and competition, we need to embrace rather than turn against one another. Let's uplift one another. Go tell your best friend they are a wonderful person. Go tell your coworker they are doing an awesome job. Go tell your mom you are grateful for her. Go tell whoever makes you happy that they make you happy. Let's work together and make the world a better place, one encouragement at a time.