To the man twice my age that drove around the block multiple times just to stare and beep at me while walking home, I am not appreciative of how anxious you made me feel.

To the 30-year old that told me that I had a "great ass" while entering the local grocery store, I am not honored by what you think of my body.

There have been too many instances where I have felt unsafe walking outside due to the men that have made me feel that way. By making inappropriate comments such as "damn, mami," they put women in a situation that is not only uncomfortable but frightening as well. One simple comment could lead to one traumatic event and I can guarantee that many women are terrified by the mere possibility of that.

I truly cannot understand why some individuals feel the need to yell derogatory comments at others, like "I'd hit that" and "Come here, baby." Am I supposed to view these shallow remarks as compliments? Is there something wrong with me for wanting to be treated as a person with feelings? These individuals objectify the women that they are catcalling and essentially push them away which is the exact opposite of what they want.

It's pretty simple- if you have an interest in someone, don't be creepy about it. Be kind. Ask them how their day is. Don't make comments only about their appearance. Try to get to know them as an individual, as another person who has hopes and regrets just like you, rather than as a body that you simply find attractive.

We need to put an end to catcalling. Nobody should have to speed up their pace when passing a group of people, due to fear of inappropriate comments being made. Everybody should feel safe while walking regardless of what time of day it is.

To all of the individuals who whistle at me and make disrespectful comments as I pass them, I am not amused or flattered by your vulgar and pathetic form of complementation.

Catcalling is not acceptable and never will be.